Friday, 04 March 2011
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Tell Her She’s Beautiful
It’s that simple. Just tell her she’s beautiful. I was recently at a gas station and as I looked up from the pump, I saw this sexy, young, blonde, euphoric angel across the station.Without any reservations I walked up to this woman and asked her a question. “Has anyone ever told you you’re beautiful”, I said. She smiles immediately, her white teeth radiate with a twinkle. “Thank you. Ummm…my parents." She shyly responds. I broke down the question. “That wasn’t a compliment. I really want to know if any husband, boyfriend, or significant other has ever told you how beautiful you are." At this point she’s beaming, her nostrils flaring as if confidence has suddenly flowed through her entire body. She answered, “no."
I explained to her that maybe if we (men) told women how beautiful they are, we wouldn’t be such dogs In their eyes. She agreed. We continued to small talk and I shook her hand and walked away. No, I did not ask her for her number.
I’m told the gas station is the number one place that women get hit on. So she could of thought I was just some creep that wanted to sleep with her. But then I didn’t even ask for her number and I became “the nice guy."
It is a proven fact that the nice guy indeed finishes last. But how great did that woman feel after no one has ever told her she’s beautiful?It doesn’t take much to tell a woman she’s beautiful. It goes a long way and as men of the 21st-century it should be common sense on how to treat a woman nowadays.
The nice guy thing sucks and usually the guy that cuts off the girl at the gas station and flips her off is the more likely candidate to end up in her bedroom. It’s a sad truth but hey, I truly believe I could have exchanged numbers with that woman and I would have had a chance with her. I never asked her so we’ll never know; yet I’m almost sure that woman will not forget the “guy at the gas station."
It is a conundrum of sorts because if you meet a girl and tell her she’s beautiful enough times she will get bored, quickly. A happy medium must be developed.
But don’t do it just to get in bed with a woman (if it works, disregard this and go with it), do it after you wake up next to her as her hair is all over the place and her morning breath is up bright and early, tell her she’s beautiful then.
The most awkward times are the best moments and telling a woman she’s beautiful during such a moment will have her remembering it for a long time.
It’s quite funny that I am giving this advice as I’m currently single yet its advice that is considered common sense. If there’s men out there that don’t know it’s important to tell a woman how beautiful she is every now and then, that means I’m a lot better off then I thought.Please guys either step your game up or don’t bother. You’re making the good ones look bad.
How do you feel about calling women beautiful once in a while?
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I do it often actually. Sometimes it's well received, sometimes the girl immediately puts her guard up and hesitates to accept the compliment. I like to compliment people, I think the world would be a lot better if instead of exchanging middle fingers, we'd trade passing appreciation.
My boyfriend tells me that, and every time he does I get this... amazingly refreshing feeling. Every time he says it is like the first time. He's one of the rare nice guys who finished first, in my opinion. I'm definitely blessed.
I have a mirror, & know I'm far from anything special to look at, so I always feel it'd be wrong (for 1 reason or another) for me to approach good-looking women, even with a compliment.
Not to mention I'm well-aware I don't look my age, so there's a high-% change of some sort of "creepiness" vibe about it, too.
totally agree. :)
"How do you feel about calling women beautiful once in a while?"
She has to actually be beautiful for me to call her that. Not only in regards to looks, but in her attitude, personality, everything. There are some good-looking people that do the ugliest things.
@Kazydai -
There are some good-looking people that do the ugliest things.Definitely agree with you there.
Yeah its a fair point. I doubt I could pull it off without creepiness. But then we british are very self-depreciating, so its likely she would think I was taking the piss.... Either way, good for you mate, and I will certainly tell my future SO this often :)
My wife IS beautiful, especially in the morning with her hair all over the pillow, so I tell her all the time. Usually, I can't stop myself, because I get lost in staring at her.
She probably gets called that all the time and just wanted you to stroke her ego a bit.
@Lordv16@xanga - I prefer the middle finger myself...its a bit more realistic and truthful but that is just me.
Uhg. When I worked at wal-mart I was told that every day but in the far from right words. Examples: "Damn girl, you thick, you know dat?" "How about some customer service-my-dick." or while adjusting the box cutter on my belt, "Yo let me help you take that off."
Every god damned day. It made me literally sick.
When I was in HS I had guy come up and tell me I was beautiful at a gas station. I still remember this, and I have been out of HS for many years. (He was assumably another HS student from the town I was filling my tank up at--nothing creepy about it.)
my ex boyfriend used to do that, just tell me i was beautiful when we went to sleep or woke up or something. =]
and nice guys may finish last, but they're the ones who end up with the girl, that's WHY they're last.
also, i like this a lot and think it's kind of funny but, "nice guys finish last. and they usually warn you. ;)"
i wish my boyfriend told me more often
This would be sound advice if women didn't act so fucking retarded when they're told they're beautiful by someone they might not find a 10/10. Learn to take a compliment with grace, please. You're not obligated to suck my dick if I say you look good one day.
My boyfriend tells me that pretty often and it always makes me smile even after 3-ish years. To be fair, I always tell him he's handsome though and I don't know how he feels about it really haha. I think it's good advice though. I think most women would enjoy being called beautiful rather than hot/sexy because that usually means that they are definitely trying to get into your pants and as quickly as possible.
I hear that from time to time and it doesn't work in the sense that I want to talk to the guy or give him a second thought. He might as well use a cheesy pickup line that makes me laugh. I'm not rude about it, I just say "thanks" and go back to what I was doing. Since I'm married, I'm contractually obligated to not reciprocate compliments of that nature.
Anyway, It's really hollow to me when it comes from a stranger. I treasure it the most when it comes from someone I have feelings for(in the past sense and now my hubby) and I know he isn't just throwing it out there to reel me in. And if he is...hey that's good too.
Once in a while I get the compliment, but I don't talk to many guys anyway. Except to be honest it makes me a little uncomfortable and I can't really explain why.
But I did like your story, haha. c:
You should only say it if you genuinly believe it.
@WishfulSinfull@xanga - amen to that!
i don't get it often. it's not likei'm a troll or anything. in fact i think i'm fairly good looking. but when i was taking an elevator from a parking garage at my university, an asian exchange student was in there with me. he looked at me and said "you are very beautiful" in his best english.
i will NEVER forget him, like you said your girl won't forget "that guy at the gas station".
that's all we want to hear.
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Aw :)
make sure you go to @tofloataway.xanga and tell her she's beautiful.
Because I think she is.