Thursday, 03 March 2011
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Do Men Want/Enjoy Sex During A Pregnancy?
They showed this is in the commercial previewing the show and I just had to see it again. Who does this?! Good thing the baby was not hurt.
Last night I was watching a show called "One Born Every Minute" on …never mind, the channel is not important…kind of embarrassing actually. But it's about; you guessed it, women giving birth. The only reason why I sat through it was to see the baby's father drop his cell phone on his new-born baby.
Am I wrong for laughing at this? Probably.Anyway, the show wasn't too bad. Some of the father's faces were priceless upon seeing their wife spread eagle with their baby (and all sorts of juices) coming out.
My mind started roaming, like it usually does, and I started to wonder about couples who are pregnant...and their sex life. A pregnant woman can have sex all through her pregnancy as long as she does not have any complications.
But how many pregnant couples really have sex and actually enjoy it?I can’t imagine having sex the first few months being a problem, but once the woman starts to show, if she starts to feel self-conscious, then what?
What if she loses the desire to have sex all together? How will this affect her man?My aunt once told me that a woman is most beautiful and sexy when she is pregnant. I think this statement is 100% true because pregnancy is a beautiful thing.
But when a pregnant woman is riding the horse, and all the man sees is this huge belly with a child in it, is this really sexy to him? Is his mind occupied with thoughts of the baby inside?
Maybe he is wondering if he is going to hurt his baby, like Seth Rogen did in Knocked Up, although this is not possible (according to babycenter.com, unless you're having very rough sex, you have almost no chance of injuring anyone). Or maybe he is genuinely turned on and could care less about the belly.
Help me out here guys, I want to understand what goes on in those intricate minds.
Guys, how do you feel about having sex with a (really) pregnant woman? Ladies, assuming there were no complications and the sex was pleasurable to you, how would you feel about doing it with your man with your bulging belly?
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No. No no no. Pregnant bellies creep me out...so does the thought of a baby being in there when I'm sexing.
Ughhh gives me chills just thinking about it.
Depends on the couple I guess... can't say much cuse I don't want kids haha
I wouldn't mind nor care, sex during pregnany is apparently helpful in a emotional state for the child to feel a more loving attention and if you do it right (by which i mean 'T' style, it is comfortable for the female, and the male does not have to worry about the womb being visually displeasing or if he would cause damage (thought i doubt it would be easy unless intentional) to the abdomen.
one more thing;
chocolate cheesecake. that's what comes to mind.
I don't think a pregnant belly during sex should be a big deal.
As a father and husband I will say only this.... when your lady is as far along as you are insinuating, you do whatever the hell she asks of you, no matter what.
Seriously though, my wife and I made love up until her doctor told us to stop due to a few things that were going on with the baby. From a guys POV, I will say that it is a bit tricky, and worrying about hurting the baby is probably the hardest thing to get out of your mind. Once the doctor explained to me in detail that there was no way of endangering the child by having sex and why, it was much easier for me mentally. In regards to the belly...well it just never really bothered me.
Having sex during pregnancy is supposed to make your labor easier. It allows your labor to progress faster and be less painful.
http://www.parentsconnect.com/questions/sex_labor_induce.jhtml
HAHAHA.
I had sex with my husband throughout both of my pregnancies, but it wasn't totally pleasant once the belly was there. It's awkward, things hurt, and it is NOT sexy. Pregnancy is a beautiful and amazing thing, and hopefully you still love your lady while she's pregnant, but I think it starts to border on creepy fetish if you'd rather be screwing a pregnant chick than a non-pregnant one.
Pregnancy seems too much like aliens / parasites to me.
If they really love each other I don't see an issue. If he has a problem with a big belly on a pregnant lady then something is not right there haha.
there are men who have fetishes for that, but an everyday couple, with a man without that fetish, usually worries a lot about the baby and until their fears are assuaged they have a problem with it.
and i've heard that pregnant women get extra horny at one point during the pregnancy haha
I don't find pregnant women to be sexy... And I don't plan on giving up my body to pregnancy so thank goodness, I will not have to worry about this issue.
As a female, I say I'd do it right unto when I was going to have the baby... that's just me :)
I assumed couples expecting carried on with sex but with different positions.
lol. I can understand how some men cant stand it but my husband was CRAZY attracted to me when i was pregnant with our son. He thought i was still sexy in every way which made me feel good as a woman with a beach ball on her body. lol.
i heard that the beginning months are okay but afterward, its not healthy for the baby.
but i guess if it doesn't hurt, then why not?
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I think it is very creepy if a guy wanted to have sex with a pregnant woman, who wasn't his wife/gf.
I wouldn't really know how I'd feel until I'm pregnant. if I have lots of morning sickness and other uncomfortable symptoms, then most likely, I wouldn't be in the mood, but if the pregnancy was fairly smooth and he made the ambience soothing like put on a nice slow jam love song while being a charming gentleman, then I might just enjoy that pre-sex pampering
I've had sex with pregnant women. They give great head.
Being a father in general freaks me out (for the fact that I don't know how to treat/talk to the kid). With that said, honestly, I think being intimate with my wife whose pregnant would be creepy. There's someone else in the room, that can hear me...and she will obviously be pissed at me as it is for knocking her up so that's going to be the last time I have sex...
@Sir_Sparrow@xanga - that's disturbing and low on so many levels to me.
@milfncookies@xanga - I agree, especially when you have a baby in your stomach @_@
@Thumper49047@xanga - Oh! You mean that in a post about sex during pregnancy, one should not say one has sex with pregger chicks and how one does it to avoid any trauma to the wee tyke? What exactly has your knickers in a twist, mon ami? The fact that I suggest that oral sex is a viable alternative to vaginal sex during pregnancy? Or is it that I did not take the post that seriously? Your self-righteous postering is offensive, especially when you do not bother to ask what it was I was getting at. To use the usual adolescent escape form actual asaying what is offensive to you by saying that was worng on "so many levels" shows what a juvenile wanker you are.
Ooooh! That's better. I got that off my chest. Now to search out some preggers for a spot of naughtiness and general unsavory activity.
@Sir_Sparrow@xanga - I am self-righteous, offensive, don't care to ask what you were getting at, not stating what was offensive to me, acts like adolescent, and whatever a "juvenile wanker" is really does have me pegged - juvenile masturbation is normal and healthy. I whole-heartedly agree with your assessment. So what is your point?
Sex during pregnancy can be awesome and even more bonding for a couple than usual. Every woman is different, but if she believes her pregnancy is a precious and beautiful part of her life, then usually she wants to share that with her husband in the closest form of physical intimacy we can have--sex!
Having said that, different positions are really key--at least for me--so the big belly stays out of the way. And I totally admit to not feeling attractive once the last couple months roll around. But my husband makes sure to show me he thinks just as well of me as he did before. We have a really honest communication so I know he's not one of those guys who is "turned on" by pregnant bellies, but he doesn't find it repulsive. I'm carrying his baby! He thinks that's awesome! He just doesn't think it's necessarily sexy, lol. But it's okay because he still likes the rest of me juuuuust fine.
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@prettykay04@xanga - Barring complications with pregnancy as diagnosed by your OB/GYN or midwife, there is NO risk in sexual intercourse while pregnant until your water breaks. That doesn't happen until you're ready to give birth. The only reason it's risky at that point is the possibility of introducing infection to the newborn on his/her way out the birth canal. Other than that, sex is just as accessible as before--more so, even, because there's no period and no potential concerns of getting pregnant (since you already are, heh...).