Saturday, 12 February 2011
For so long, men have been considered dogs. The ones that are focused on getting as much nookie as they possibly can get from as many women as possible. It’s accepted within society and among men, and it doesn’t seem like it’s changing any time soon.
But I must say that women in the past generation or two have changed what a cheater is. Some women today seem to “date” multiple men as they are not married and don’t feel that they should limit themselves to one guy at a time. The reasoning is also very repulsive, as most women would just say, “Hey, guys do it, too.”
The eye for an eye theory has never worked and will never work, especially in a relationship.
But has it gotten too far? Older folks become prude as they grow older and have children of their own but sometimes things go too far. Ashleymadison.com is a website that promotes having an affair with someone you meet on the site. It explains that it is healthy for a marriage when infidelity occurs.
That’s not saying the institution of marriage is the epitome of all that’s right in the world but a website like that represents the loads of distrust within todays man and woman. Feminism aside, there was once a time when women respected their men and would never attempt to sleep with someone else.
Settling down and getting married is not what this article is about, but meeting a girl at a bar and getting her number is even problematic in this day and age of diseases and multiple sexual partners.
Since the beginning of human kind, sex has been there. From slave masters’ wives sleeping with the slaves to nowadays when a grown man can take care of a kid that isn’t his, yet everyone knows that fact but him. Things like that example above happen every day in a world where the man is known as the dog but women do what they can to get back at us.
Do you feel that a relationship involving sex should be an honest one, no matter how fresh it is?