Wednesday, 10 November 2010
I can't get it in my head why guys are turned on by lesbians and lesbian erotica. They are lesbians having sex. The operative word being lesbians.
They are not going to invite you to join in, they are lesbians, who generally, are not interested in men.
Can someone please explain to me what is so attractive about this?
Mancouch Says: You raise a good point, especially since the reverse doesn't seem to be true for females. That is, I haven't heard of many straight women who happen to find it arousing to watch pr0n involving homosexual men.
I do however, have a theory about why men enjoy watching two chicks go at it. It mostly has to do with the female form. Women have beautiful, curvacious bodies, complete with long, gorgeous hair and lots of other features that men generally find attractive. Men, by comparison, have very utilitarian bodies. We've got bigger muscles, hair in all the worst places, and a pretty unattractive set of sex organs.
So, put that thought into the perspective of a guy watching an adult movie. Does he watch it because he likes to see another man having sex with a woman? Not at all. We barely look at the guy. We watch it because we enjoy seeing women being overtly sexual. The sight of a woman engaged in a sexual act turns us on. In the case where it's a guy and a girl, we're most likely imagining ourselves in the guy's place.
Now put that thought into the perspective of a guy watching a pair of lesbians. He's getting a double-dose (or triple, or quadruple, depending on the kind of film we're talking about) of what he likes to see: nude women doing very naughty things.
It's not at all about being invited in. That thought is naive. Sure, it's a nice fantasy, but in reality, it's not going to happen. Unless, of course, you're Mdongivin, in which case, it's probably already happened many times (And that's why we love you).
For the rest of us, it's about satisfying curiosity and taking a look at something we enjoy: women. The fact that those women happen to be touching each other is just adds to the fun.