Saturday, 06 November 2010
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Cutesy Talk: What is an Acceptable Amount?
This is a guest post from Cheat Confession.
Ok, it’s time we admit it. We all engage in cutesy talk from time to time. It’s part of being human, we do all sorts of silly things. But more importantly, it’s part of being in a relationship.
We’ve all done it, we’ve all caught our friends doing it and made fun of them mercilessly for their misdeeds. So, rather than take the typical male stance that all cutesy talk is a crime against humanity, I’m going to admit that some is perfectly natural. But that leaves the important question of just how much is ok?
Because I think we’ve all seen someone in our lives go overboard and do too much (and if you haven’t then that someone is you) and frankly it’s sickening. Too much cutesy talk is just gross and makes everyone within hearing distance get a bad fart look on their face. It’s so saccharine it gives everyone who hears it audio diabetes. Where’s the infomercial for that, Wilford Brimley?
A little goes a long way.
Clearly there is something about us, as human beings, that makes us revert into babbling idiots at the sight of adorableness. Also, relationships. Women, in particular, are at risk for cutesy idiocy. Hence why relationships cause us to revert in such a way. Men will do anything in the name of getting a woman.
Looking for signs he’s cheating, ladies? If his phone is filled with texts of lovey dovey gobbldy gook that isn’t from you, he’s getting somethin’ somethin’ on the side or at least thinking about cheating. Ok, it’s past the thinking part at that point, he’s either getting some or actively trying to. Within relationships, though, it’s ok, kinda, to participate in some cutesy talk. It’s natural. And can even be maybe just a little fun.
Ugh, I think I just threw up a little in my mouth. So how much is an acceptable amount?
-DangerZone
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Comments (9)
If it lasts past the honeymoon phase it's just plain creepy and disgusting. But that's my personal opinion. I never use the cutesy phrases, I usually call my SO honey, babe, or baby. Sometimes sweetie or hun. But that's it, no pookie or cupcake or lolipop none of that shit
Me and my husband don't do that. I mean, we have but just because we were making fun of people who do it on a regular basis. lol
If it makes a couple happy, good for them. Unfortunately for some women, I'm not one for "cutesy talk" or whatever it's called. I'm more on the humorous side.
Oh, I love cutesy talk. For example, my current love interest calls me "boom boom kitty fuck" on a regular basis, I think that's just adorable.
I think it's too much when it's all the couple does.
A little cutesy talk always makes people cheer up. Consider the fact when I'm down, my boyfriend is having a little bit of a hard time cheering me up... I look to the bear he gave me, Mr. HuggyPants. I smile everytime I see this name, though the name being retarded but so damn cute- you have to smile. Then everything is all better.
If all the couple does is give cute names to things and "bugawoowoo" each other, that's a little sick to my stomach. xD
it so happens that my boyfriend does it too frequently. it should not be done practically ever if you can help it. it's like farting. sometimes it happens and you can laugh it off, but if it keeps happening, it makes everyone uncomfortable.
I think except for one cutesy nickname...the rest of it should be kept to private time. I mean, I don't have an issue with someone who refers to their SO in front of others, as Cutie, Snuggums, or Daisy Doll, but if they start baby talkin...I'm walkin.
less yer willing to put back on a diaper too..absolutely none... sheesh... babytalk to a young child maybe.. but cutsy? not if ya gots a pair ..
I only do cutesy-type talk to babies and my cat.