Friday, 20 August 2010
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"I saw you in that XXX video"
So the other day I was surfing pr0n on the internet (Because I do that sometimes.
) when I happened across a video of a girl that I could have sworn was my cousin. It turns out that it was a false alarm and it wasn't her, but it made me wonder what would have happened if it really had been my cousin. Realistically I wouldn't think any differently of them, what they do is really their own business. I would almost say I could be proud of them. I mean, I highly doubt I'd ever be comfortable selling my body to a site like that myself-- but if my cousin was okay with it, then I'm okay with them being okay with it. Unless it's something like S&M or weird fetishes like that then I might be a bit weirded out. I wouldn't love them any less.
How do you think you'd react if someone related to you turned out to be an an internet pr0n star? How do you think you should react?
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awkward...
I have no idea how I'd react, it probably wouldn't be positive though.
This exact thing happened to a friend of mine, but it really was his cousin. lol He was pretty pissed. If it were one of my little sisters I might have an issue with it and at least talk to them about it, but I wouldn't hate them for it...and couldn't stop them. A cousin, well it is their life, they can do what they want.
"Why didn't you tell me? I would have helped ... hold a cue card or something..."
My former roommate in college found out one of his exes was doing porn.
It made me chuckle.
Though it was softcore (I think?) and just her in a webcam thing still...that's damaging...
i wouldnt judge em, their life is their life. it would kind of depend on the material though, like you say. my love would still be there.
I'd probably talk to them about it, but in a "dude, so... I found your video! Hahaha, good job!" way instead of a lecture-y one.
No, it wouldn't make me think less of them. Just differently, if I'd formerly thought of them as someone with a certain moral set.
I would probably laugh my ass off. Not gonna lie.
I wouldn't care. I would probably not watch it though heh.
Someone stole a tape of me giving oral sex to my husband and put it in youporn. A lot of people who knows us found it and we've been the gossip of our hometown for almost 3 years (we dont live there anymore thank god).
I got really depressed, started cutting, our sex live is nonexistent now...I was in therapy for a year, now im getting better....Its something I dont wish for anyone, unless they are the ones who upload it...I really think this destroyed my life
My friend sent me a picture of a girl from his graduating class in a 4 guy sex scene along with her picture from the HS year book. It's 3 years later and I still don't know how he should react.
@Ale - I've got to ask--and please bear in mind that I don't mean anything malicious, much less to cast aspersions on your intelligence--but what drove you to tape your sexual relations with your partner?
I ask because I want to understand it. I've never felt a desire to do it, so it would be interesting to know why others do.
I'm sorry about how your particular circumstances played out.
It pays... everyone has sex eventually. If they don't then they wish they did. Unless they're asexual or something. It's normal and natural.
like uhh, say if it was my brother or my mother [[shudders ]] i would want eye transplant! God help me, I go blind the moment I see anything like that...... [[ not that I am admitting to porn stuff.... cuz well... you don't need to know that. ]]
*shrug* Whatever. I mean, I might question why they'd go into the business, but I don't think I'd think differently of them. They're working stiffs. That's just how it is.
I often wonder, considering how much porn there is in the world, how it is that I have never thought to myself, "Hey, that girl looks familiar! She was on that one site!" You would think that with the number of sites, videos, and magazines that the everyday person would run into at least one of them each week. Or more.
ha ha i think the real question is if you realize its someone you know do you finish rubbing one out?
I'd be completely surprised, but I'd accept it.
@Ale - How can they shame YOU for it when THEY were all the ones watching it? Sounds stupid to me. Screw those people.
@dejasenti@xanga - Thanks, actually talking about it helps me coping with it (I feel the need to tell anyone it wasnt my fault).
My husband was away for a few months bc of his job and it seemed like a good idea at the time.
@Kazydai - I know, its like I conscientiously know that theres nothing wrong with it but a big part of me feels extremely guilty about it, I feel like im a slut and everyone I know laughs at me. I have good days and bad days but theres not a single day I dont think about this.
I think I'd feel weird about it... but I'd accept them just the same... I mean I know there is a tape out there of one of my family member...cough** mom** cough... but it hasn't been put out for the world to see ( well at least I don't think so) Its not like they can take it back so I think everyone should just learn to deal with it.
It would be a little scarring that I saw it, if it was a close family member, but I don't think I would make that big a deal out of it. You know how many people make sex tapes? A lot, whether they intended for it to get out or not. It's not that big of a deal. People have sex, it happens.
"Cool. Whatever floats your boat man."
Then again sex doesn't faze me.
It's not shocking and it's not scandalous. It just is.
I'd like to know, dear author, did you actually go and ask your cousin if it was her? Lol
lol I would so go get my husband and say "You gotta see this!!!" then probably keep it as our little inside joke. If it was my more immediate family members I don't know how I would feel about it. Most likely NEVER watch pr0n again. Might copy the video just encase I ever need it for blackmail XD.