Well it is no secret that I am a bit of an arrogant prick. I don't mind anymore, it makes life a little more interesting. The world becomes way more fun when you are better than everyone else. Initiating comment insults in 3... 2... 1...
But you would be lying if you said that you never judged anyone. I'm glad to have discovered that others do the same and sometimes you actually learn about the people you're judging based on your comments and reactions. Yesterday at work, a coworker of mine started commenting (quite hysterically, I may add) on a couple who were also coworkers of ours. The two looked quite happy but the situation looked hysterical. The boy was a larger boy and the girl was a fit and decently attractive girl.
Never the less though, when my coworker started to yell at the girl in a joking fashion, she got embarrassed and stopped holding her "boyfriend's" hand as they walked away. You're kidding me right? Well that just summed up her whole opinion of the relationship right there.
If a person has settled for another person then I don't even know what to say. Maybe "Fuck You" but we won't jump to conclusions just yet.
There is something to be said about a person who is embarrassed to be seen in public with their partner. Why are they even with them? What is your partner's purpose? To make you feel better about your shitty life and how you may only look decent with 5 pounds of eye shadow and cover up on... ok, maybe a "Fuck You" is allowed.
Now I know that that was directed at girls so I'll redirect just to avoid the shit-storm that could come out of it. Boys will do the same but probably if they are just using that particular girl at that particular time. They might not want to bee seen in public with them due to scrutiny from their friends or maybe being seen by another harlot they're taking advantage of.
In the end though, if you don't want to be seen in public with a person, you shouldn't be entitled or even privileged to their time in private at all.
People are disgusting. They use each other and hurt each other just for personal benefit and pick-me-ups. I guess that is the capitalist nature of us. I know I do it too... thus including me in the "disgusting" category. But I would never settle to be with a person who I did not completely adore. And if that person was embarrassed of me, I would tell them to go fuck themselves and just walk away. I guess in the end, that is the only solution to this problem.
If you're in this situation and you're just noticing it now... spare yourself the drama/heartache and leave. And if you're doing this to someone, "Fuck You" and you're filth. Yay!
What do you think of partners who settle or are embarrassed of their significant other?
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@Morgan - consider it done
yeah that's really sad...i guess they're too insecure to care who they have a relationship with.
I don't think this post is controversial at all! And it makes total sense. I only pick to be with guys i WANT to be seen with....except once. But it was more because he treated me like an ass and i didn't want other people seeing because i knew they wouldn't like it....But i should a just dumped him...which i did :P
I think they should suck it. Don't date the person for goodness sake.
too much to read. headache. so i'm going to respond to the title.
i don't find out if i'm embarrassed of my partner until i introduce him to my friends or family. actually, if i don't introduce him, then i know i'm embarrassed of him and i need to dump him.
I absolutely agree with this opinion, rather statement. It's absolutely true and reasonable, and correct for that matter.
I, for one, love your blantant critisism; we need more people like you. So long as it's always within reason.