Thursday, 29 July 2010
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The Peer-Pressure to Shave My Chest
Editor's Note: About a year ago we posted a blog about why men should trim their chest hair. It's time to talk about it again.
What is it about our world where people feel the crushing peer pressure to be (or look like) what they aren't? Sure, I wish I was taller or had more muscles. Everyone has a little but of vanity; it's only natural. But remember that we are talking about someone's body, something our momma's made for nine months, something beautiful.
At one point, when he was cast as James Bond, Sean Connery was the epitome of a handsome man. Images of him in nothing but shorts on that beach in Dr. No or other Bond films have become the stuff of Hollywood legend. Yes, his chest was hairy and they put the most beautiful women in the world next to him. Take a look at the photo below.

There's our man standing behind Ursula Andress, a Swedish goddess. No doubt she can feel his mane...
Now take a look at Daniel Craig (who I must say probably plays my favorite Bond). He's almost completely hairless. Please understand that I am not saying Craig in unattractive or ugly or a sellout. I am merely using the visual history of Bond as a backdrop against pop culture as a whole.

True, he might be naturally lacking in large amounts of chest hair. But the man who played Bond before him was Pierce Brosnan, who was just as hairy as Sean Connery.
Something must have happened in the late 80s and early 90s where many men decided to go smooth. I mean men like David Beckham, Brad Pitt and Mario Lopez.
Or did this happen much earlier?
In ancient times most men routinely shaved their chest for hygienic reasons. It was practical and probably a prudent idea. Many people didn't have the facilities to bath everyday and removing the hair limited body odor while also helping men stay cool, because hair traps heat. Ever see a Greco-Roman statue with chest hair? Probably not, and this might be because the artists were simply sculpting what they saw in their own society, unwittingly documenting the history of chest hair for their time. And because, well...maybe it is sexier for a man to have a bald chest. To each his own.
Like anything else, most things have certain stereotypes. For instance, some people jumble chest hair with over aggressive manliness. If a man's hair is gray people may assume he's old and ugly, or should be in Viagara. This might be one reason why men feel like they have to shave it. There are plenty of other reasons, of course.
Regardless, most pictures of the hot young things on T.V. or magazines (at the very least) trim their chest. I've heard this called Man-grooming, up keeping or metro-sexuality. Whatever you want to call it, sometimes I can't help but feel the pressure, or fee like an idiot when I walk on the beach with my wispy chest hair in the breeze. This is stress I could live without, stress no one needs.
At the very least, I think we can be mature enough to admit that chest hair is NOT evil; maybe sexy, maybe ugly, but not evil. I've heard a wise man once say that one important step to happiness is accepting our bodies as they are, with all the flaws, freckles, and wrinkles we accumulate through the years.
If you want to shave, then shave. If not, then don't worry about it. BUT don't make someone guilty about their body! Momma spent a lot of time on it!
Do you feel the pressure? Is shaving our chests hip, stupid, sexy, ugly? Do you shave your chest? If so, why?
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I love love love love my boyfriends chest hair. He doesn't do shit to it and that's just how I like it
I personally don't shave my chest lol. However you shouldn't cave into the peer pressure for conformity.
If you find someone who loves you for all of you, then you obviously shouldn't have any doubts about, but then again, if you find someone who loves you and accepts all of your other flaws (we all have 'em) but that's kinda their one can't-stand, maybe out of courtesy it would be appropriate.
I'm not a fan of the constant shaving of anything , however my girlfriend has OCD about it. So out of respect for her putting up for my crap, I make sure I always keep cleaned up for her.
It just depends I suppose.
@jessibaby28@xanga - so you trim it? I like the compromise. I didn't think of that but i appreciate it lol
Depends on the person. Some guys look better with it and some look better without it.
I personally think chest hair is gross. If you prefer your gf to tidy up her legs, pits, or pubes, then you should be willing to do the same for her.
@Michelino - Well I can be somewhat of a difficult person to deal with, so yes. I think it's best to compromise a bit especially if it's something simple instead of a change to personality request
I don't like my men to mess with their hair. I like them just the way they are. I hated it when my ex shaved... and he was really hairy. I like my current bf in all his bald glory though as well.
I suppose I equate shaving with femininity. Guys aren't supposed to spend an hour in the shower manscaping every other day. WTF. Just leave it alone.
Arms, legs, arm pits, chest, and other places cannot be shaved if you're planning on bedding me. If I wanted to have someone that was bald and prepubescent looking, well, then I would find someone like that.
My man is absolutely hairless, except for his head and a tiny bit of pit hair. He is a MMA fighter, and it is so much easier if everything is just... shaved. And it looks soooo good to see every muscle without any visual obstruction.
Anyone remember Kramer?
i think chest hair is sexy. too much like steve carrell's pic up there is just nasty, but no hair is too bare. my SO knows i like chest hair - he only has two, which i would rather him wax off, but he's deadset on keeping them LOL.
my significant other is armenian and he has chest hair, a lot of it. . .I never really thought about his chest looking better w/out it or otherwise. Its just kindof a part of him lol. If he wanted to shave I wouldn't care, If he never shaves it I dont care either.
The fact that men shave is not really big deal. I think that if people (yes men and women) want to shave their body parts as long as they do it for themselves, it should be fine. Another thing, women are Expected to shave their legs, pits, etc just because they are feminine and supposed to. It's almost a double standard. If women have to shave, why can't men?
What do they use to shave it? My boyfriends shaves and he uses anthony for men. Does it hurt for them? Maybe ill just tell him not to do it!
I'd rather my man look like a man, thank you.
no, no. I want my men to have chest hair. I think waxing or shaving is gross, and when it all starts to grow back, it feels absolutely awful.
Chest hair really skeeves me out. I'm thankful my bf hardly has any, not because he shaves, he just doesn't have much. My brother is freaking hairy as all hell and it makes me wanna throw up every time he takes his shirt off to go in the pool. And no, its not because he's my brother, because I get like any time I see someone really hairy. A little hair is fine, but please don't have a a carpet.
Plus, guys expect us to shave, so why can't you guys shave or at least be trimmed everywhere?
Chest hair's actually pretty great as long as it's not "Austin Powers" thick.
A small patch of chest hair is fine by me, maybe even sexy if the guy looks good altogether, but here in toasty FL anything more than a small patch gets hot and itchy when you cuddle. I don't want to have to sleep with a sheet in between us, thanks.
I like my bf's chest hair..=) Wouldn't change it for the world..who says you have to conform?
my boyfriend shaves his chest hair, and i wish he wouldn't. i like it, but, he can do what he wants. i guess :/