First of all, I would like to stress how amazing flat stomachs can be. You can have everything going for you: pretty face, nice ass, and nice boobs, but if you don't have a flat stomach it could potentially ruin all of that. The opposite is also true. You may have small boobs and a small ass, but just having the flat stomach wins you so many points.
I also personally think a flat stomach is a good indication of physical upkeep, fitness, and health. This brings me to my other point:
I know this is a really controversial topic on this site, but I don't want thin people to be left out of any beauty categories. You may or may not be struggling with that, but I find women on the slender end of the spectrum to be very attractive. I don't mean to attack anyone or say people are overweight at all. It is just a personal preference--I, more than most guys, and more than is normal, find thinner women to be very attractive. However, it is also a turn-off if what little weight they do have its very untoned and mushy. If you're going to be thin, it may as well be soft and toned.
But back to my original point, even a thicker girl can still be super-attractive simply by having a flat stomach.
Besides the face, I would rate the most important features of a woman as:
1. Stomach
2. Ass
3. Legs
4. Boobs
5. Arms
6. All the rest.
What do you think? Is a flat stomach too hard to accomplish for most people? I seem to seem to see very few of these glorious beings.
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you just put a smile on my face :) i love my flat tummy!
Did you ever think that some people do not have the genes to have a flat stomach? Some people have a naturally round stomach. A perfect flat stomach is nearly impossible for some people. I personally would not waste my time on something unattainable if it was me. Although you may associate fitness with a flat stomach. It really doesn't mean anything.
I watched a show where a guy was saying the exact same thing as you. His girlfriend was anorexic and he loved her because she starved herself skinny.
@chell_kicks_08@xanga - This is true. Some of the fittest people I know are a size 8 or higher. I think this guy is just looking for a justification as to why he only dates skinny girls. Not only that, but some girls are skinny without being fit. But I'm sure even they weren't athletes, he would still date them. A tad hypocritical, no?
I loved my flat stomach (and definitely intend on getting it as flat as possible post-partum). My other features always got much more attention, especially my breasts, but I always thought my tummy was one of my sexiest features, even if it was just for me. :)
Also...what is so unfair and horrible about a guy having things he likes? Nothing. I have things I like, and I'm sure anyone who reads this does too.
This is a bit unfair. :( Do you know it's near impossible for some people? My old dance teacher had stomach surgery that left her with a permo roll of skin on her belly.
@Tanezia_Delight@xanga - I would have to agree with you. That is like saying you like people with a certain nose or breast size. I guess it is okay if it fake right? As long as it is what you like. But oh wait! I want it to be 'real' Yeah I hear you. His justification is weak.
I have a flat stomach!
hehe you think thin people are left out of beauty categories.
i didn't think soft and toned worked together i thought it was like:
toned= tight= hard (because its muscle)
wheras soft= untoned = mushy (because its fat)
and yes a flat stomach can be apppealing, not a sign of health but appealing. And a lot of people would find it hard to accomplish, maybe because theyare too muscley or too fat or use their organs too much and bloat. And because they have whatever fat they do have near their tummy because woman are supposed to carry children and hence have a higher body fat percentage to protect their child. but thats nature. it can sometimes give us some naturally thin woman or some people work hard to achieve this flat stomach. you should check out thinspo if thats what you like.
I've never known anyone to put arms as an attractive feature on women though. . . . you just like the thinness i think.
@chell_kicks_08@xanga - Exactly. Like, I don't mind if he's like, "I like skinny girls" but to associate it with fitness irritates me. Thinness is not the only sign of physical fitness. I'm on a college campus full of girls who are size 2's and haven't gone for a jog in their lives. And I know girls who would have some fat on their stomach who spend hours at the gym a day. His reasoning for liking skinny girls is what is weak. He should just admit that he's like every other guy in the world who wants a skinny, young, trophy girl on his arm.
Not saying that all skinny girls are trophy girls, but to go out with a guy like that, they need to know that that is how the guy is viewing them, not as a beautiful person and soul deserving of love.
Our internal organs are not flat and therefore it is impossible for some people even thin people to achieve flatness naturally. I found it a little sad that none of the features you listed had anything to do with her mind, character, or personality but like you said everyone has their own tastes and I wish you the best in finding her.
sorry your post seems to be ruined when other guys get to be backed up by other guys with "yeah that *insert meaningless physical trait* is hawt". Not very fair so :
yeah flat stomachs all the way, even better with matching legs. niiice.
Ass and feet, nipples, mouth.
@Tanezia_Delight@xanga - wow what?? a boy should like you for you not your stomach okay so attractivness is key but lets say you meet the most amazing girl ever...and she don't have a flat stomach? is it on to the next one or what?
flat stomaches are what most people want. but frankly its damn hard to get and maintain, regardless if youre thin in shape or whatever.
as long as youre not turning down girls solely because their stomach is kinda round i dont see an issue.I dunno about flat, but I definitely like toned. In both guys and girls. If we're talking below the shoulders, the torso is probably my favorite spot on the body visually.
And, yes, I realize this isn't "fair" because not everyone can achieve it. But, hello, it's an attraction thing. Not everyone can have big boobs without surgery, and some people still like those. *shrug*
i want a flat stomach. in fact i want six pack abs.
and every guy i tell that to says "eww that's gross," but they can just not look.
@angelbbyNae@xanga - That's the point I'm trying to make. He's making seem like all he wants is a trophy girl: a girl with a flat stomach to call his own. And for us who aren't that, it's cruel to make us adhere to those standards. And to girls who are like that, it's not fair to treat them like a trophy instead of the sincere and nice girls they are.
@tsh44@xanga - Y'know, I don't think he meant that things like personality weren't important, I simply think that the list was only including physical characteristics, and there's nothing wrong with that. Everyone's got a physical ideal as well as a personality ideal, and finding The One usually involves some sort of combination.
@taylorrrxx3@xanga - Is it unfair to have a physical preference? Why? He's one guy of many, and not all guys are looking for the same physical features.
@Tanezia_Delight@xanga - That is horribly tragic. O.o@unabridgedtales@xanga - At one point throughout the show, he even said that if she got above a size 2, he would dump her. So loving, right?
@Tanezia_Delight@xanga - yeahh i agree completly...it's confusing to me b/c i don't think people realize girls mostly, come in a variety of shapes.
flat stomachs wide hips
small hips not so flat stomachs etc etc
i mean i don't have this fat ass stomach but i also don't have the flatest. You know? there is no right to make your trophy girl just b/c of her stomach.
@Tanezia_Delight@xanga - ....No wonder she's anorexic. My mother dated someone who did similar things to her.. She hit about 100 pounds at 5'6" or 5'7". x__x
Is a 6 pack to much to ask for? Anyways, everyone has they're own expectations out of the other sex...that happens to be yours...to each his own.
Okay.
@unabridgedtales@xanga - I try to not read extra things into what people have written. I took his post at face value simply assuming he meant what he said "Besides the face, I would rate the most important features of a woman as:" = he did not say whether or not that meant physical things only and he never said that was all he cared about so I make no assumptions about whether that is all he cares about I simply said it's sad he didn't list anything else, not that he didn't care about anything else..