How Can 'Normal' Girls Compete?

Thursday, 15 October 2009

How Can 'Normal' Girls Compete?

My boyfriend’s brother has recently become obsessed with girls and pictures like these. They are just threads away (literally) from being classified as pornographic. He’s also become keen on getting my boyfriend’s opinion on these pictures. I know, “boys will be boys”.
Now, I don’t question that I’m a fairly good-looking girl. I’m not anything like the above mentioned women - not even close – but, I mean, I’m not ugly. I’m somewhat confident in myself, and feel comfortable with who I am. However, its pictures like these that make my self-confidence wane and waver. I don’t have a problem with women who like to flaunt what their mamas gave them. Like they say, “If you got it, flaunt it.” But some of us don’t got all of what these girls have got. Mother nature didn’t bless some of us with double D breasts, and a huge badonk-a-donk. There is NO WAY I can compete with the likes of these girls.

My question to you all is: Do girls and pictures like these raise the standards for what you classify as beautiful and sexy?

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Just a little. >.> but I know that most of them are unrealistic and photoshopped, so why even bother dwelling on it ?
- 10/15/2009 5:56 PM
- SamiiSaysHaii@xanga (message)
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How do you compete? Don't go for shallow guys.
- 10/15/2009 5:56 PM
- Lordv16@xanga (message)
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Women don't compete. Insecure girls do.
- 10/15/2009 5:56 PM
- goofball4@xanga (message)
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If his type is fake tans and giant fake tits and you don't have either of those go for someone who likes your type. What's so fucking hard about that?
- 10/15/2009 5:57 PM
- ShimmerBodyCream@xanga (message)
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dat ass....dayum.
- 10/15/2009 5:58 PM
- SlackerSociety@xanga (message)
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I don't let it get me down, I just get all the more focused on improving myself daily, not just my looks, but my personality and level of knowledge, that way I have the peace of mind knowing that I am a work in progress -Plus, I have an incredibly loving husband, so that really helps as well. ^_^
- 10/15/2009 5:59 PM
- imTHEmeowMIXcat@xanga (message)
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@Gerald_Washington@xanga - and they oiled it.
- 10/15/2009 5:59 PM
- ShimmerBodyCream@xanga (message)
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MOAR PICTURES PLEASE.
- 10/15/2009 6:00 PM
- complicatedlight@xanga (message)
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holy crap that butt is huge...
- 10/15/2009 6:01 PM
- MiSS__NARA@xanga (message)
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How do guys compete with famous, wealthy, and successful men?
- 10/15/2009 6:01 PM
- coolmonkey@xanga (message)
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@coolmonkey@xanga - Big weenies.
- 10/15/2009 6:04 PM
- ShimmerBodyCream@xanga (message)
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If any guy actually believes thats the norm for girls then they're the random and few crazies. Dont feel bad.
- 10/15/2009 6:09 PM
- MangoWOW@xanga (message)
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@SamiiSaysHaii@xanga - @goofball4@xanga - @Lordv16@xanga - What you ladies seem to forget, is that us guys have a stable view of reality.
We know and realize that fantasy is fake, and that reality is real.
Porn is not real, it is a world made for people with escapist tendencies.
it is rather obvious that it is not real, and that it is just for entertainment.
And men, don't expect you to compete with that. Because if every woman in the world looked like Scarlett Johanson...sorry, got hung up on that thought, but it would be a boring world, and that is why different sizes and shapes and skin colors(after all, tanning IS altering your skin color) as well as personalities (although some more than others we like) are always appreciated. Its just the perfect ones that get the attention.
Now for cynicism:
Plus, us guys usually are in touch with the fact that nailing one of these women are slim odds. So that's why we stick with you.
But lets face it, if you could nail Matt Damon or Clive Owen, you would leave our asses in a nanosecond. So we're even.
- 10/15/2009 6:10 PM
- SlackerSociety@xanga (message)
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All these pictures are majorly photoshopped. Just take a picture of yourself and photoshop it a bit and you can look the same!
- 10/15/2009 6:13 PM
- Pcgecko85@xanga (message)
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Aaahhh! I don't want to look orange and lorday I wouldn't those grossly disproportionate body parts. I think there are blogs that have said before, pretty to look at, wouldn't want to date. it's a picture. it's intended to be eye candy, art if you will.
- 10/15/2009 6:29 PM
- dlmcniel@xanga (message)
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makes me feel insecure at times ><
x
- 10/15/2009 6:32 PM
- yukarimayhem@xanga (message)
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@Gerald_Washington@xanga - CAN I GET A AMEN!
- 10/15/2009 6:37 PM
- Waltsense@xanga (message)
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@Pcgecko85@xanga - I'm a photographer, so I can photoshop it for her :P
- 10/15/2009 6:38 PM
- SlackerSociety@xanga (message)
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@dlmcniel@xanga - how could looking like an oompa loompa NOT be sexy.
- 10/15/2009 6:59 PM
- ShimmerBodyCream@xanga (message)
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@ShimmerBodyCream@xanga - touche, I'm so incredibly attracted to them. I'm off to buy some green hair dye.
- 10/15/2009 7:01 PM
- dlmcniel@xanga (message)
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@dlmcniel@xanga - oh bby http://img.thesun.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00035/ed_imgsnf23bizfx_265_35293a.jpg send me picz
- 10/15/2009 7:03 PM
- ShimmerBodyCream@xanga (message)
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@ShimmerBodyCream@xanga - lulz. that is exceptional. Unfortunately I was not well blessed up top. Maybe I can borrow from miss plastic surgery hungary.
- 10/15/2009 7:04 PM
- dlmcniel@xanga (message)
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First of all, thanks for the lovely pics, I enjoyed them immensely. But seriously...
@Gerald_Washington@xanga - <-- This guy nailed it.
Besides... your boyfriend is dating you, doesn't that kind of already answer your question?
- 10/15/2009 7:08 PM
- mcmeister89 (message)
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i dont feel the need to compete. i can be just as sexy as those girls. im 'normal' but my guy knows theres a sexy side so... its all good.
- 10/15/2009 7:12 PM
- KIDDOH@xanga (message)
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hmm normal girls send me yer pics and i will heavily photo shop them like those as well...
- 10/15/2009 7:13 PM
- beforedawn@xanga (message)
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