I honestly don't think "How was it?" or "How was I?" is that bad of a question depending on context. If the dude/chick is all "Oh how was it baby?" and you know s/he expects you to say a ten or whatever, then yeah, don't be a douche. But if you're with somebody you're actually -intimate- with, and not just fucking, then I think it's okay. Feedback is what makes sex better! 

Also, I think the weirdest question I've ever asked was "What's the difference between regular steel and stainless steel?" Odd, I know. But I had just remembered it from a conversation previous to sexy times. 

@live_for_love@xanga - You should have asked him about stress failure of aluminum.  I'm sure that would have got him for round 2.

@Aa_bEbE_pHaT_aA@xanga - Haha no, I kid of course.

To be honest, I tend to be more of the silent, cuddling, hair stroking type.  I know, not manly, but whatever.

actually recently my bf asked me: "how is the sex for you?" we're a new couple (budding 3 monthers) and considering we're fairly active, I was pretty surprised. I don't know, I answered it as honestly as I could; "i have no complaints" because i didnt. he's more experienced than i am and i've always wondered if i should ask him... lol i dunno, i doubt he'd say i was bad even if i wasn't up to "par" but still... i don't dare. lol. O_o

My boyfriend spanked me and tugged my hair once during a rather rough bout of sex and afterwards we were cuddled and it was really quiet (like REALLY quiet and I could tell he might be a little nervous or something) and he finally says, "It was okay that I spanked you and kind of pulled your hair right? It didn't hurt did it? I'm sorry, I just got really into it.." and so on and so forth. I just started laughing and told him it was great, I liked that he spiced it up a little. That was probably the weirdest question/moment we ever had after sex. Other than that there's never been a "How was I?" Mostly because we both know how good it was for the other haha and also there's not much experience on either side to compare to (I am his first and I've only had sex one other time with one other person before we met...and that wasn't good so yea haha).

"So how many times did you cum?" More fun a question than weird. Ego stroking and blah blah blah. 

I see four couples. Hrm.

Aside from that, I don't tend to ask many questions or leave them with much energy to ask any themselves. If anything, I'll usually just say, "your welcome" and take 5.

@mudkiwi@xanga - SEEEEEE!!! i'm not alone. hehe

I've always had my random thought moments following sex. Something I just remembered to tell my mom or a question a friend posed to me the other day and I forgot about....After the act, I don't really filter what I say much, so usually it just pops out. My bf has learned to take it as a sign of a job well done.

The only awkward question for me is when he asks how many times I've come before he has. I see another poster mentioned wanting to gather that information..but honestly, I'm not paying attention past two or three. And a lot of times, they just roll together. My answer is almost always "i have no idea" but it's always a question posed.

@Coke0@xanga - Didn't know guys could do that LOL not complaining though, round two is always fantastic.

Why do posts like this keep making it through Mancouch? I guess any girl talking about sex is a plus, but damn. A GIRL asking OTHER GIRLS what stupid things men say after sex and just throwing in that last bit to make it more relevant to us? GTFO...

I love it when girls SLIP UP and ask similar questions after sex. Girls normally don't say SHIT. They just assume that they're awesome because you wouldn't have gotten hard or had an orgasm otherwise... and thats complete bullshit. We need to break the whole "All women are good in bed" gender paradigm. YOU'RE ALL NOT.. and YES GUYS HAVE BEEN KNOWN TO FAKE IT TOO. Tuxedo condoms are PERFECT for that(though I got caught once.. hearing your fwb say while out of breath "why'd you stop?" ...can't really lie your way out of that one) ;p We get erections several times a day, everyday, so dont think you're a seductress because you manged to coax one out. Don't cuss me out. im only half joking. its all love, ladies <3

I think i've only asked the same dumb question every guy asks "did you cum?" ...and ive learned; if you had to ask you didn't do it right. the first orgasm i ever gave freaked me right the fuck out lolll. like DAMN, where'd all that strength come from?!

haha tmi.

@erahslover@xanga - That's true though I think the reason guys get in trouble a lot of the time for talking about sex is because they're always talking about it. But still, you're right about the whole "all girls are great in bed" thing. I've heard some pretty hilarious stories my guy friends tell me.

And this seems like a post that should go on Lovelyish. It's a girl with an opinion asking what other girls think; for the most part anyway.

i usually just ask to do it again. 

@striemmy@xanga - Yeah...I don't even need to keep track or my orgasms. My ex kept track when he felt like stroking his own ego.

@AzNFLiPBoiPiNoY@xanga - Lol the most mind-blowing orgasm I ever had was when my boyfriend spent about 20-30 minutes giving me oral and then fingering me. He never did it again, probably because he thinks the 3-8 orgasms I get during sex satisfy me, but sometimes I just want that one giant one that leaves me shaking and literally out of breath for thirty minutes afterward.