You can check out Part 1 and Part 2 of Mr. Jin's series at the links above.
DO, walk her to her house/apartment/shack/box/under the bridge/ditch/whatever.Just because I said not to make the move, does not mean you cannot hug her.
Now here's where the big difference lies. When you hug her, you got two ways of doing it
1. The London Bridge or
2. The Knee Touch, Cheek Peck Method.
1). The London Bridge The London Bridge is the hug where your feet and her feet are roughly 3 feet away from each other and you two lean in for the hug without touching hips. This is basically the newbie method. If you've gone with this hug, then you for sure were not ready to make any sort of move. Also, I might add, that if you're giving this sort of hug at the end of the night...chances are that you're not seeing her again. I only say this because usually it's the girls who initiate the London Bridge. It's a defense mechanism to touch you with the least amount of physical contact possible.
2). The Knee Touch, Cheek Peck MethodThe Knee Touch, Cheek Peck Method is the way I like to end a good evening. I know it sounds lame. Hope for a hug at the end of the night? What's this guy thinking? But let me elaborate.
The first part of the hug will be the close proximity you have to each other. If she allows you to get in close enough for a hug that your right leg enters between her legs (while standing up), you've made it past one of the most closely guarded areas on a woman's body. Women will throw their chests up in your face to tease the shit out of you, but you'll always notice that those legs stay closed up like a bear trap. It's something that has been burned into their heads since they were little girls playing with Barbie. The area below the belt line is a "no fly zone". To be able to get that close is a huge accomplishment.
During the hug, you step in close enough that the inside of your right foot is almost against the inside of her right foot and you reach for the lower back with both hands and bring her close to you. If she's receptive, she'll just fall into your arms and you should have your head cradled on her shoulder right by her ear...yet another closely guarded area. At this time, you can take the opportunity to let her bask in your manly male pheromones while you say something like, "I had a great time, let's do it again". Give her a quick peck on the cheek and another long squeeze for good measure and then walk away. That'll leave her heart racing and wanting more. I guarantee you that she'll be inside calling her best friend talking about how sweet you are.
Trust me gents, this shit works. This is one of my all time most highly kept techniques.
Do not abuse the power that I have bestowed upon you. Go forth and multiply.
Comments (46)
omg, when I read the description of the last hug, i could feel my own heart racing and wanting more! nice. too bad i can't use these tips, at least i'll know when it happens!
Wow. Good description of a good hug.
Whew.
lol, you'd be the ultimate older brother if you had any younger siblings to give advice to.
This man is a genius. And a god among men.
Noted! ;D
I like finding my head on a guy's shoulder during a hug. You can tell how comfortable you are with someone based on the head. Chins awkwardly poking shoulders, no good... clammy cheeks pressed to cheeks, no good... head resting on a strong man's shoulder, sigh :)
Lol... what a nice description.
I now want a hug.
that sounds like quite an excellent hug.
Awe, how cute~
But the description kindah had me waiting for an accidental knee in the vagina. >>
"Do not abuse the power that I have bestowed upon you. Go forth and multiply."
That was hilarious. One of the best posts I have read on this site.last hug last hug last hug
yes yes yes yes yes!
xD
Ok, considering the feedback, I think you have a winner.
freakin awesome. I want a hug! Not just any hug, that hug!
Not sure I followed. I think I need to test this hug out.
wow, this is good advice... much better than what i usually do in dates when i go in for the hug saying "I had a nice time, let's hug it out bitch."
"Go forth and multiply."
I love it! Your writing is really entertaining and resourceful.
I have a remedy for the London Bridge hug :
When you notice them stick their ass out to initiate that particular hug(we see it from a MILE away ladies), you drape one arm above the shoulder and the other adjacent to the small of her back(you can even sneak in a finger into one of her belt loops of her pants if you're bold enough), bring the small of the back arm in first slowly so her front meets your front and the shoulder arm directly after. Once you have that locked you can do the slight sway; where you balance and shift yours and her weight back and forth but talk to her about how good of a time you had at the same time, then slow-release.. don't hold for longer than 2-3 breaths.
The sway side-to-side technique is to take the creepy factor away from what you're trying to do. It makes it friendly but not SO friendly that she doesn't feel the warmth from your body. A gentle but quick kiss on the neck can be thrown in for good measure.
In her head she'll be thinking either; "wow... the balls on this guy" she'll call her friends when she gets in to clown you... then they'll probably want to meet you which spells second date. "hah... i see what you did there" she'll be impressed by your innovative technique and how you caught her off guard. "woah... is that a hard-on?... really?" in which she'll FORCE a London Bridge but still stay locked so not to make it more awkward, but done so that its understood that it was indeed, awkward "hmm... that was kind of sweet, he might have a shot afterall" if during the date she wasn't necessarily feeling you. OR she might just shock you and reward you with a kiss on the neck/cheek or pretend to pick something off of your face or fix an eyebrow... not quite sure what that means yet... its odd when it happens, but definitely welcome because its more physical contact than expected with your successful London Bridge reversal.
GREAT POST JIN
ahaha i love how you've got all the women swooning over this post! :D
lol, u wish!!!
You got it down pat, sir.
Unfortunately it does not work with a girl who is taller than I. :(
love this!!!!!!!
Damn. I need the visual guidance.
go forth and multiply! hahaha brilliant x]