Saturday, 01 August 2009

  • I'm looking for a Sugar Daddy

    Most women would never admit to looking for a Sugar Daddy. I’m not one of them.


    But don’t be quick to judge. Hear me out. Whether you’re the average Joe sitting there in disbelief thinking “What about me?!” or the wealthy man whose ears are echoing an emphatic:  “Gold-digger! Run!”,  I’d ask you to take a moment and think this through. 

    If there’s one thing you gentlemen on either end of the financial spectrum may not get, it’s that a woman who’s searching for a Sugar Daddy isn’t necessarily as hungry for the Sugar as much as she is craving the Daddy!

    Let’s face it; while there are as many ways to define personal and professional success as there are persons and professions, there is something to be said for the man who has reached a certain financial status. More often than not, the wealthy gentleman is wealthy for a good reason. He possesses – by whatever means - that special something it takes to carve out a piece of the world for himself; an entrepreneurial spirit which spurs on his drive to achieve, and  a deep rooted desire to attain the goals he sets for himself at whatever cost. I’d venture to say that it’s precisely that special something which makes a Man of Means far more attractive than a man who means well but rarely has much to offer in the way of financial security.

    How about you?

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Comments (29)

  • buddy71@xanga

    nicely put.
  • x__MYJAdEdLULLAbY@xanga

    i need a sugar daddy too. lol. im overworked tho. full time student, 3 part time jobs. maybe ill be someones sugar mama or cougar when im older ;]
  • MangoWOW@xanga

    Haha. I don't think I'm necessarily looking for a sugar daddy per se.... but I don't see myself ending up with someone that doesn't have enough money to live comfortably. I will always work... I'd want my man to know that I dont need him. However it would be nice to know that if I decided not to work or lost my job that he'd still be able to support me easily.
  • xa06@xanga

    Whoa, sounds just like my mom.

  • KimisBarbie@xanga

    it shows they're willing to work hard, and they're intelligent.  I like a man who knows how to get what he wants, and provide for the people he loves.
    so yeah, i want a sugar daddy too! haha
  • T0m03@xanga

    I never thought of it like that. Those are some good points! :)
  • C0ll33Ncorps@xanga

    Gold Diggers- like prostitutes, but smarter!
  • pinktiger335@xanga

    I like your position better than gold-digger... you sure puts things into perspective... 
  • Peridot21@xanga

    you go girl! (and if he has a brotherrrr... ;)
  • mewithoutu77@xanga

    i totally agree with you.  i'm also looking for one too.
  • yourblondeness@xanga

    agreed. i think i also want one because they are older, and i like older guys.
  • pasaway4eva@xanga

    LOL
  • Meowmeowkimmaee@xanga

    Women like successful men. I wouldn't mind being a traditional housewife or something if my husband was rich enough to support us both.
  • nrb2233@xanga

    I think the idea that successful men possess something is more of a turn-on than the money itself.  I work, and I definitely intend on being successful myself when I finish school, so I don't need a man for money, but if he's successful, it says something about his drive, which is really attractive :) 
  • brittany302@xanga

    I wouldn't say gold diggers are prostitutes. I will have to have a rich husband probably athlete. Because my expectations are extremely high already, I mean HIGH. My mom is a surgeon and has spoiled me since the day I was born. I only wear designer things, top designers. Eat in fine restaurants, have nice cars, have specific friends, its like the standard for me I guess. =)
  • jebdereb14@xanga

    He got that ambition, baby, look in his eyes

    This week he mopping floors, next week it's the fries
  • Uwrote@xanga
    Mmmmmm... cupcakes

    (There is no mini that states that this post is interesting even though I am not of the same opinion. So cupcakes will have to do!)

    Meh.

    I understand your point of view and have nothing against it or any woman who subscribes to this idea.

    My adventures in the business world has taught me (to your point), there is a certain skill or trait necessary to carve out and be financially successful. I also find that these men are so strict that it makes it difficult for them to share or be open to ideas or ways outside of their preferences.

    I prefer a traditional relationship with a woman. I like sharing ideas and opinions. I like moving forward as a team. Yes, there will be good and bad times (and decisions) but that's part of a growing relationship I want to be in.

    Again, any person may want the 'safety' of the position you are ascribing to and it is fine. It is, in my opinion nether bad or good.

    Would I want a lot of money? Sure I would.

    Would I want the security of someone who knows what they're doing all the time? Um, they do? The perfect robot? Conan the Barbarian? I'm somewhat of a skeptic when it comes to those things. Nothing is perfect.

  • herecomesthemoon@xanga

    it isn't how much money a man has, it's how hard he works for it, i think
  • PeterATL@xanga

    yes, he owns a piece of a world, then when the disaster strikes, it turns out he's going to throw himself under a train or fake an airplane accident to avoid facing responsibility. and suddenly the court takes everything you were used to and you end up living on the street.


    and how would you predict that in advance? tasting all the fruits of financial status that is based on fragile fundaments.


    looking for a Sugar Daddy is equivalent to desire of living in lazy comfort, not taking responsibility for self. it's almost like finding a long term job as a paid callgirl. well, it's definitely not a sign of a strong personality.
  • PeterATL@xanga

    @KimisBarbie@xanga - because of growing popularity of this opinion, it is certain that some time in the future people will be permitted to enter a marriage with credit cards or bank accounts, which would eliminate the need for Sugar Daddies or Mommies. a little unclear is the fact how different it would be from legalized prostitution, but there will be a lobby group, well paid by the voters filling that profile, that will pass that law.


    now, the question is, if the credit card, or the bank account get canceled, will the people married to them "canceled" too?

  • a_bundle_of_sticks@xanga

    Hahahaha my future husband needs to know how to cook. I can make money!!
  • MonzaRacer@xanga

    Seems a lot of women want to marry a rich, successful man. Well lets see,a woman that wants several credit cards paid by someone else, lots of expensive toys, paid for by someone else.
    Designer clothes are simply expensive rags and mean less than you think.
    My friend has a modeling career, she wears some of the most expensive stuff out there, guess what,,,,she lived a life of privileged and then found out that a $1000 dress isnt any more comfortable than the $100 dress or the one she made her self.
    Ladies who want lots of zeros in your account, its an uncomfortable pillow to sleep on, oh and when you get boring he WILL buy another piece of ass.
    If you have to be bought, ie have a man with lots of cash, then you are and always will be a prostitute.
    Till you understand that cash spends and IS gone when spent,,,,,,,,,,and true and honest love, will weather out a lot more and get you through things.
    As they say money is the root of all evil.
    God created a man and a woman to be a partnership so many never realize. The rib was taken from Adams side because Eve was supposed to walk through life BESIDE him,,,together.
    Too many women think they are so much better than a man, and some men never figure out the truth.
    Men and women have separate roles to play in life, too many women think they are equal to men when they need to see that they are so much more ,,,,and less.
    It seems they forget there are inherent differences and neither will be equal ,ever.
    Equality is a buzz word for too stupid to see the real picture.
    Money was invented by man, and there for flawed.
    Can certain "domestic" chores be switched, traded ,etc. Heck yeah. Can a woman get a better job than a man, yes, does it go against the big plan,,,,nope.
    I have a buddy, met a doctor and while she had his manhood in her hands asked her out! Seriously! He saw a smart, beautiful lady and decided he would "man up" and ask her out.
    She said yes, he did construction at that time. Good money but nothing like what a doctor makes. so while she was off on maternity leave he worked, she went back to work he stayed with kid. Kid goes to school he goes back to job (since he owned small company, he could take as much time off and let people he hired do work).
    If a lady ever wanted to sit on her ass and do nothing and spend my money,,,well she gets boot,,,no matter how good the sex.
    Figure it this way, if you get paid to lay there its prostitution, pure and simple.
    Live in the worst place you can and be happy with your partner and life, then build up to the money.
    I see friends with cash rich hubby and few are truly happy, yes female friends.
    Amazing how much some want the big cash but when they get it,,,then figure out it isnt everything.
    Old girl friend is just getting out of a "I married a wonderful guy and he's RICH!" marriage, she figured he never loved her and after finding out he was paying for several lays on side ,,,she is done.
    Good luck on finding your money man ladies if you think it will make you happy, think again cause its when its gone, your poor just like everyone else,,,,and if you love money so much I guess you will dump him and move on,,,,,just like a prostitute does,,,look for another john.
  • Ork58@xanga

    @brittany302@xanga - I wish you all the happiness money can buy...
  • kacyy@xanga

    i do not understand why this is on mancouch. a woman is writing about how she wants a man to be rich enough provide for her. why is this on mancouch??
  • brittany302@xanga

    @Ork58@xanga - Haha, Thanks!

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