Monday, 20 July 2009
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Or@l S3x
I really did attempt to disguise the title. Why am I writing about this you ask? Well here is my story.
I used to think that it was demeaning and ridiculous. As a matter of fact I hated it with a passion.
I then got into it and started to think "Hey, this is pretty nice and he really likes it." I have a couple of friends who disagree with me. They think it's disgusting and they said that they will never try it. They said they would rather give a woman or@l sex then do it to a man because it's awful. I think doing it to a woman would be worse than doing it to a man. Now in my opinion or@l s3x is one of the sexiest things a woman can give her hubby/boyfriend.
I mean the way a woman uses her mouth muscles and tongue is phenomenal, as long as she knows how to do it. So maybe they're afraid because they think they'll be horrible but you'll never know until you do it. In my past 4 relationships (all serious) my boyfriends said that the sex was amazing but the best think I had ever given them was or@l s3x. They said it kept them wanting more and that the next time was better than the last time. They would all constantly ask "Did you learn something new? Did you practice?"
So my question to you is: Do you think or@l sex is one of the sexiest things a woman can give a man?
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The other night, all I did was pleasure him. He didn't touch me at all and I was just as satisfied because he was satisfied. I did tell him he owed me one though... hehe
I love giving Oral, it's my second favorite sexual thing.
I know my boyfriend thinks it's one of the sexiest things I can do for him. I find the act pretty arousing, myself ;]
I wouldn't know, since I'm not a man.
But it is a pretty sexy experience for me, to give oral sex to a guy.
No.
OMG. I wouldn't let any woman put her mouth on my cock. Period.
(One of the nice things about being intact...women generally don't want a mouthful of smegma. Hahaha.)
Yikes, even the thought of some woman having my thing BETWEEN HER TEETH is enough to scare the holy cluster**** (watch Dane Cook for translation) outta me.
@XDaemonessX@xanga - ... ... ... (should I ask...?) ... .... okay... dare I ask what your no.1 favorite is... ...?
Yes.
I very much enjoy pleasing my man. As long as he's into hygiene, there's nothing gross or demeaning about it. At all. But if a girl isn't into it, she might as well not do it, because guys know. Jerks don't care if the girl is into it or not as long as he is getting what he wants. But the decent ones actually do care, and would like a girl to only do it if she's into it.
At least that's what I'm told. I'm not a guy so I'm not stating it from a male perspective, lol.
I love giving it to the SO and he enjoys it as well. In fact that's a huge understatement.
Sometimes girls act pretentious and call me a slut for doing this specific sexual act, but of course that's illogical. I think they're trying to flip their inexperience around and pretend like those of us with experience are lesser beings than them. And somehow they never seem to think that getting oral sex from a guy is demeaning to him.
They're just jealous.
At first, I was put off by it too. I heard the horror stories like everyone else. But now, I'll do it every time. I think once you learn what you're doing, and exactly what your man likes, it makes all the difference. I'm with Xdaemoness...sometimes, I just like to do it to satisfy him. What's good about it is it can be used as a tease, to intensify things further, or just to get him off. And the author's right, its simply amazing what a woman can do with her mouth..
he loves it so i love it. but he returns the favor tenfold.
It's one of those things where I wish I would get it but I honestly don't think I ever will. Nor do I think I will ever find someone who would enjoy doing that. A lot of women just don't like to try and a lot will try it once and think its disgusting. I don't blame them though so I can't really hold it against them.
at first I never wanted to because I was scared I would be so horrible and I would just be mortified from the experience.
Boy was I wrong!! He enjoys it so much that it gave me so much confidence that I like to do it now, just because he enjoys it. I always get paid back so it's not selfish of him, because I want to.
:P
I think if the woman's wearing braces then it should be avoided >.>
Haha, "Did you practice?"
Personally, I was never all that into it. And my SO wasn't either. That is, untill we met eachother. I thought I would never do it, but for him I did because I love him. I can get some pleasure out of it based on his reaction, but mostly I just do it for him and I still find more pleasure in other things than that. He said he never liked it with his old girlfriends and never expected them to do it because he thought it was discusting, but let them do it anyways because they said they wanted to, even though most of them acted scared of it. Then along I came and on my first try at giving any guy that experience I was being called a queen of this sexual art by my lover.
It's fine as something to do as a treat for the person you love, or as a bit of foreplay, but when it becomes the main sexual act one performs I start to be a little off-put. Still, people have their prefrences and I know of girls that can actually have an orgasm from giving a guy a bj.
@abilene_piper_lg@xanga - Not true of all women... but on the other hand, I don't think anybody's going to force you to accept oral if you don't want it.
@Lynnjynh9315@xanga - Well, you wouldn't want a woman who hates your guts giving you oral, obviously... but when you're in a committed relationship where you care about each other, hopefully you're in a place where you know she'll be careful with the goods.
@testerdre89@xanga - Eh, there are women who enjoy doing it- as evidenced by this post- and even if they aren't a huge fan of the act itself, a lot of women like doing it because they know it makes their man happy. It's not as unlikely to happen as you think.
More power to the women that do do it, I can't. It's not that I'm put off by the act or anything, but I don't like salty things...>.<. I just can't get past the ackward taste haha XD. I think I might have said far too much.
@abilene_piper_lg@xanga - Uhm... if you have smegma you're a nasty fuck who needs to learn how to clean his dick. jesus. UGH. Oral isnt THE sexiest thing, but its... its pretty awesome and kind gesture. hahaha. An older woman I was seeing two years ago would come over JUST to do that, then she'd leave... she was the first person period to make me climax from doing that.
Which I think chalks up to whether or not a girl actually LIKES doing it or just does it because she knows I might be into it. We can tell.. and if your man can't tell you hate it then he doesn't care about you as much as you think he does. There are sexier things a woman can do other than Oral... but its RIIIIIGht up there. But then again I'm more of a experience driven sexual being. Head is nice, but her dressing in something hot, or cooking me diner or her letting me give her a bath, or her giving me a massage or letting me paint on her naked body is FAR "sexier" than the act of her gong down on me.
I don't see why girls are still squeamish about that... and would "rather go down on girls" ...thats a whole different conversation. If your friends claim they're straight but say they'd rather go down on a girl than a guy there is a lie somewhere in there that needs to be explored.
...and as far as women complaining about the taste/smell... ever taste/smell yourself? shit aint fruit salad down there, honey. plus lots of water and whole fruits rendered the "aftermath" either tasteless or even sweet(or so ive been told).
both girls i've dated really enjoyed doing it. like legitimately.
I enjoy giving it, and my boyfriend was never able to achieve orgasm though oral sex (or with me on top) before I came along. His past girlfriends weren't very good at it, apparently.
It's nice to give to women, too, although the technique is completely different.
@erahslover@xanga - Apparently you aren't aware that no matter how well a man cleans, he'll always have a little bit of smegma built up between the foreskin and the head. Same thing with a woman...doesn't matter how well she cleans her vagina, it will always have some smegma built up in it. It's an inevitable fact of having fully intact genitals, I'm afraid.
i just think it's funny that in the question you used "@" to disguise "oral" but left "sex" as is. =p
@abilene_piper_lg@xanga - im intact and ive never had that problem ever. you might want to get that checked out or something. whatever gland produces it might be producing too much in your case.