Saturday, 11 July 2009
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Getting caught looking
Is it okay to look at other women (or men), while in a relationship?
Without any necessary sexual tensions?
Have you done it before?
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It depends. Is it a "Oh damn! She's hot!" kind of glance (Which is okay. Tell me what you like and don't like, bring me into the game with you.) or is it the "Oh, thank you sweet Guiseppe, I'm gonna go home, screw my old lady and dream about this for the rest of my life" kind of stare? It also depends on how YOU MAKE YOUR WOMAN feel by your actions and deeds. If you're critical and neglectful, yes it's going to piss her off. If you make her feel wanted, loved and desired, most won't have a problem with it. Just remember, as women, we can feel you looking. We know what you're thinking by the way you act. If you're one of those creepy old guys staring and drooling over a 20ish PYT, it only grosses her out!
I look at girls, and my boyfriend doesn't generally mind. lol. Women are just generally very attractive. Sometimes my guy and I play the "is she your type?" at the mall. I have to say though when went to see Transformers I couldn't help but hold my breath for about 1/2 the movie watching Megan Fox.
As far as looking at other guys, I just don't generally get the urge. I also don't mind if he looks at girls, usually, but too much of a good thing.... and it's starts to get a bit obnoxious.
Ugh i don't do it, but i guess i look at everyone without even noticing..so yeah
i try not to get mad if i catch my boyfriend do it...lol
There's nothing wrong with looking. Don't be disrespectful and don't stare. You shouldn't be neglecting your bf/gf while you do. I'm very blatant about looking, don't care much if anyone notices either.
@KassieintheSkywithDiamonds@xanga - Haha that's awesome. My fiance and I do that too. One time he said that if people didn't know who we were, they'd probably think he was my brother and I was a lesbian. :P
Its ok to glance, not to stare, and definitely not ok to say something.
if im confident enough in our relationship, i could care less. i might even join him for the hell of it. as long as he doesn't go anything further. otherwise bad things will happen :)
All things have fallout, man....
my boyfriend is a head taller than me... even if i did do it, i dont think he'd really notice... XD.. sigh.