Saturday, 13 June 2009

  • Offensive Talk during the Act

    So what's the most offensive thing someone has said to you during sex? 

     

    A long time ago, I learned that some guys find it offensive if the girl says something like  “deeper” because she’s implying that his manhood is a bit shy (of inches).  Is this true?

    Has anyone said anything rude or offensive to you during sex?  How did you handle the situation?

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Comments (30)

  • MangoWOW@xanga

    When I say deeper its because I want them to stop messing around and go deeper. Not cause they're small. lol
    I can't really think of anything offensive someone has said to me during sex.
  • SugarCravings@xanga

    Deeper means just that, Deeper, Push it harder get in there get goign lol. Like the above response said "quit messing around" and add to that POUND ME TILL I SCREAM. haha So no i don't think that is too offensive.


    As far as offensive things said to me I am not sure I have ever heard anything. Most guys I choose are the silent type (not a good thing). :)
  • StepHyKu2517___v3v@xanga

    sex talk talk sex
  • xDark_horizonx@xanga

    That reminds me of that one scene in "Young People F*cking"
  • mindyeat@xanga

    i called out a guys name during sex and he said "what" lol
  • scrawnyjohny@xanga

    Wait, we're suppose to be listening during sex?
  • erahslover@xanga

    @xDark_horizonx@xanga - thought i was the only person who saw that movie... i always ask around about it and ppl have no clue what im talking about hahaha. pretty funny flick.

    @mindyeat@xanga - HAHAHA. awesome. Maybe he was trying to ignore the situation to keep his stamina in check. Ive done that from time to time. Mentally take myself out of the game while physically going nuts.

    Maybe not DURING, but AFTER ive had a girl say "ahhhh  mmm mm... thank you" with a quick uninspired kiss and then proceed to get dressed... that was pretty fucked up ahaha. But never during I don't think.
  • wonderland7386@xanga

    @mindyeat@xanga - ha!  I called out the guy's name and he said "what's up." but I think that was more because he had 0 experience with girls

    @erahslover@xanga - oops, are we not supposed to do that?
  • xDark_horizonx@xanga

    @erahslover@xanga - Indeed it is, I always recommend the film to friends.
  • erahslover@xanga

    @wonderland7386@xanga - haha, its not a matter of rule breaking, just a matter of courtesy. I mean I laughed it off and it wasnt a big deal.. just thought it was kind of hardcore... and made me think to myself "should i have charged her for that?"
  • Broken_Beautiful@xanga

    I kicked a guy outta my place for disrespecting me.


    :e)
  • mewithoutu77@xanga

    i guess i've always been pretty observant when i'm having sex with a person.  if that person swears a lot and likes to talk dirty then i'll talk dirty to them but if they don't then i don't.  
  • NeukenKeuken@xanga

    If you're not getting rude remarks you're not doing it right.
  • playswithlife@xanga

    @mindyeat@xanga - Lol. I cracked up when I read that.
  • playswithlife@xanga

    I like a little talk during sex. Sometimes a lot of talk. Depends on the person, and the situation. But I slept with one girl who would say things like "deeper", "faster", "more", "keep going" - just like we were in a porno. It was a huge turn-off. The talk has to be genuine to work. I wouldn't be offended if a girl said "deeper" - whoever is interpreting it that way might be a little over-sensitive about their manhood-size. Of course, if she outright says something like "oh, too bad you're not bigger .." - lol. That might be a little cutting. I don't think anyone's said anything offensive to me during sex.
  • nexthorizon@xanga

    I've never had anything rude said to me at all..but I guess one time he mixed up his words. I'm always the one saying "fuck me," but one time while I was giving him a handjob, he was moaning said "fuck me." I stopped, looked at him, and then we both started laughing.

    @playswithlife@xanga - Um...if a girl can't say something "faster" or "deeper" while she's having sex with you, then what else can she say besides a moan here and there??

    Believe me, I'm pretty genuine when I say things like "fuck me" or "god you feel so good.." Then he'd occasionally tease me by going so slowly and I'd have to beg him to do it harder.
  • playswithlife@xanga

    @nexthorizon@xanga - Yeah, it wasn't the things she said, but the way she said them. It was like she was emulating a porno.
  • playswithlife@xanga

    @nexthorizon@xanga - And BTW, that teasing sounds -nice- ;)

    The whole thing with that girl was weird. It was like we were displaying the things we were doing, not doing them for the sensation. I told her that when I stopped seeing her: "Every time we have sex, I feel like I'm in a porno." She said something like this: " :o  But I'm every guy's dream!". lol. She actually said that. Maybe every male pornstar's dream, I don't know. But it just wasn't for me. But yeah, if it's genuine I DO like that kind of talk. And moaning .. and screaming .. yum.
  • IndieVonRicarda@lovelyish

    If you're offended by "deeper" then you need to man up. Stop being so sensitive. Deeper just means she wants it rougher. Good Lord.
  • XoShameOnMeoX@xanga

    I think dirty talk is awkward...at least in my experience, it seemed like they were trying to hard...maybe they were just bad at it.

    I also don't like it when people try to hold conversations with me during sex.

    Or stop & stare at me.Ugh.
  • AtLeastWereStillAlive@xanga

    My babyboo and I were having makeup sex after this little tuft and I said "I love you" and he just kept saying how tight I was and such. Which isn't really an insult but it did piss me off that he was just fucking while I was making up .-.


    But usually during the act I'm always sayign deeper. We just want you guys to fill us up nahmeann?!
  • Aiyoku_Angel@xanga

    I think I offend my fiancee when I have a serious full-body, clawing, screaming, orgasm. The noise seems to turn him off hardcore. I can't help it, though. -.- It just feels too good to just sigh and moan. My brain freezes up and I can't stop. =/

    One would think he'd be happy that he can do that to me, but... he seems offended for some reason, even though it's his name I'm usually screaming.

    Any help/suggestions?

  • nimbusthedragon@xanga

    I believe it was an unsollicited, patronizing "You're going to be my little cumbucket aren't you? Aren't you?" as though he were talking to a small dog, that did it for me.


    I think I stopped everything and said something like: "You wanna run that by me again, dipshit?"  Needless to say he apologized.


    Or there was the time, on this fling in my youth, where the guy stopped in the middle of everything and said "I can't do it.  I'm thinking of another girl."  Ouch.  At least he was honest, though.


    But yeah, other than that, dirty talk is fair game.

  • LaDii_Nessa0o07@xanga

    the only dirty talk i've ever experienced was when me and this guy were goin at it and he kept sayin "yeah...yeah fuck! you like fuckin girl?!" amongst other things with 'fuck' in it. i was MOST DEF turned off, i felt like i was starring in some lame porno.
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