Friday, 22 May 2009

  • Do Crazy Girls Turn Guys Into A-Holes?


    My friend's personal philosophy is that all girls are crazy and all guys are a-holes.

    I have found that to be true to a certain degree.

    For example, I dated a girl who was taken to a pysch ward, a girl who was so emotionally unstable that I wound up getting promoted to her job at work and she was demoted and I'm attracted to a girl who has a sleeping disorder that makes her see the devil.

    I admit, those are some extreme cases and what my friend was referring to is more along the lines of girls flip-flopping emotionally (like loving to hating and then back to loving their friends in 2 weeks time or being indecisive in a relationship). However, I have yet to find a girl who I feel is completely sane or rather there are some ticks I notice.

    I will admit that I can be an a-hole at times too. I don't feel that I'm an a-hole all the time though and I think that at the times I am, it's because of my past experiences. Am I just being naive or have I been conditioned/hardened?

    Or better yet, is this a chicken and egg case? Do assholic guys make girls crazy or crazy girls make guys assholic?


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Comments (23)

  • M_S_T_A@xanga

    Neither or. You are that way because you don't know any better or because you choose to be that way. Everyone has two sides to them. Nobody can be completely sane all the time and nobody can be completely nice all the time.
  • BlazinSAPpHiRe89@xanga

    I think we all just get hardened due to our past experiences. It's up to us to decide how hardened we want to become. Some people let themselves get to the point of cynicism and that's never good, and some just never learn, which isn't good either.

    Also, I agree about never finding girls who are completely "normal". Every girl i've ever been interested in has had some level of "insanity", or unstable in some way.
  • whitetrashpoet@xanga

    Crazy girls leave WONDERFUL men behind, seriously! I've dated a lot of guys after they left some crazy ass bitches, and they're just so sweet and nice and laid back and the simplest things make them happy, like, you know, not screaming at them over nothing/making them call every five minutes/not screwing every guy they've been friends with since 8th grade/whatever. They just usually end up being GREAT boyfriends for whomever dates them next.

  • wolvenchic@xanga

    @M_S_T_A@xanga - agreed.
  • whitetrashpoet@xanga

    @BlazinSAPpHiRe89@xanga - True true. But there are crazy girls, and then there are CRAZY girls.

  • meanii@xanga

    There is no such thing as a sane girl.just one prtending to be sane.lol.
  • JupitersDays@xanga

    hahaha. I think we all exist not because of each other, but because that's just who we are. A girl is crazy because she's crazy. A guy is an asshole because he's an asshole. They don't create each other. But put them together, and you get extremes of both. 
  • LupusInvictus@xanga

    If most girls are this definition of crazy, then I think that would actually make them sane and normal...The people who you consider sane and normal, would be crazy and abnormal.

    hah, see?
  • Dorkasaur@xanga

    All girls are crazy. We're all indecisive and many of us analyze everything until we've simplified it to something completely unrelated.
  • asdfghjkieu@xanga

    my ex thinks that all girls are bitches & all guys are assholes. it's somewhat true.
  • MangoWOW@xanga

    All guys are assholes and all girls are bitches.
  • cherry_tequila@xanga

    wow you've had some CRAZY girlfriends!!! lol.
  • Create_Passion@xanga

    @JupitersDays@xanga - i completely agree. you can't blame people for turning you into an asshole, you decide who you wan't to be. you can either be a total asshole to a girl, or you can be a gentleman.
  • Not_a_real_site@xanga

    @Create_Passion@xanga - Why can't you be part asshole, part gentleman?  And your comment doesn't even touch on the complete lack of sanity that is the female psyche.

    I choose to protect myself against all emotional threats, due mainly to a crazy bitch...well a series of crazy bitches, and if I have to be an asshole in order to protect myself, fuck it, I'm an asshole.
  • superGchik@xanga

    i agree but it's not just girls that are crazy, there are guys that are crazy too but we're human, we are flawed and there is no one that is completely perfect.


    if you're constantly attracted to crazy girls, then maybe you're attracted to the chaos that the girl has.  it starts with who you are, maybe there was some craziness in you're life too.  it's not completely the girl's fought that you're attracted to her craziness.  one thing i learned about attracting to chaos is that to stop it, you will need to find something that is a little boring and safe and that will end your cycle of crazy girlfriends because that girl might not have the insane personality like the others before.  
  • anonymous

    I think it works both ways. Guys can make women crazy, and women can harden a man ( a man's heart I mean).
  • xjadersx@xanga

    I don't think this statement is true. I believe that it goes both ways. Everyone is different, and everyone reacts to things differently. My boyfriend was already an asshole when I met him, everyone knows it. He's just not an asshole to me most of the time. He already knew that I was somewhat crazy at times when we started going out. So I can't say I know from experience.


    I have dated assholes in the past, and they made me go a bit crazy because they didn't let it show at first.

  • PuCCaiEe@xanga

    i am not crazy!! i am just emotionally unstable. My boyfriend is not an asshole, he is just trying to live his life...i love my man
  • anonymous

    um... well, I certainly BECAME the crazy ex when I found out my ex cheated on me and then started dating the girl almost immediately after. So, you tell me? Was he the asshole before I was crazy, or did my craziness make him an asshole? Hmm... judging by my time line, I would say he was an asshole first. If he was never an asshole to me, I never would've been the "crazy ex" I am today. 
  • coconut_dream@xanga

    @whitetrashpoet@xanga - Hahaha! That makes sense. Now I know which guys to go for.
  • Finalplague_Trinity@xanga

    I'll second the motion that crazy women make guys into assholes. Well, its not 100% because certainly guys can simply be assholes too, but it seems far more likely that a guy will harden after terrible experiences with heart-breaking women rather than on his own.


    Of course then the tables are turned and the assholes can break women's hearts. Its a vicious cycle, but I do believe that women start it at a young age. I've been there and done that. I think I'm a rather simple and nice guy...


    It is, of course, up to you whether you become "hard" or not. I dont like the idea of giving up faith in humanity. Not "all" guys are assholes and not all women are crazy... but I've seen very few exceptions to the rule...
  • makea_wishh@xanga

    i think a-holeic guys make girls crazy, then those crazy girls break up/get dumped with those a-holeic guys  - so then the crazy girls start dating a sane guy so they can be 'teated right' but they cant have a proper relationship because they are so used to how they were treated by their a-hole guy that they either drive the sane guy crazy or he dumps her casue she is crazy which will probs jst make her go even more crazy :/

    so now crazy girl has tuned guy crazy/into an a-hole and newly crazy/a-holic guy starts dating a sane girl but eventually makes her crazy and cycle starts all over again :/
  • lil_fire_bella@xanga

    HAhah Coincedence, I just finished blogging about this. IMO, all guys start off as assholes, then they work their way up from there. I know that I've just been hardened from experience. And wow, you've has some pretty intense girlfriends:S

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