Wednesday, 20 May 2009

• Leave the "Unattainable" Hotties Alone!

  
  

  
  

  
  Perhaps I am the only one who ever follows this theory, but I'm the confident guy, which is a bridge between being nice and an occasional idiot. Hehe! And I always have this one rule when it comes to dating girls and the rule is this: leave the hot girls alone. At all times and everytime! If one happens to ask you out, great. I wish you the best of luck.

  We will not see eye to eye on the following issue.

  Here is what conjures this up. I went to college, and used to see plenty of cute girls. I was the type never to really bother, because I was the loner, but I digress. But I noticed that of all the girls, the hot girls are the ones who will easily make you hide. Really, it made it easier for me not to even bother talking to them, because I wanted something with more subtlety. 

  Heck, a couple of nice dudes even know that a date with someone hot enough can easily end before it started. Either way, I seem to notice the same crazy thing about "wanting the babe that just happens to be there":

  1) Tackling the impossible (and for what?): To males, getting the hot girl can be either a cinch or a challenge. Either way, some males will go to great lengths to capture the hot girl because it makes them feel big, but the biggest challenge of all is this: if by chance you did get her, what do you have left up your sleeve to keep her there? Make sure the options have nothing to do with your animal instinct. Long story short: where is the importance and what is the use of chasing after something you know you will probably not get?

  2) Trying to turn the shallow puddle to a swimming pool: Now, not all hot women are shallow. But suppose you did wind up with a shallow one. The experience is probably a lot like this. If anyone has seen The Parkers' episode, there is a man who looks grungy, has one eyebrow and wears a hat, but his heart and love for this shallow woman is true. Still, he didn't actually get this woman, till he turned hot. (Isn't that how it always goes in shows?) Then, he gets a chance to turn the tables and hit her with the truth of how deep she truly wasn't and how much she truly didn't deserve his love for her.

  3) Bragging rights mistaken for confidence: What man in here can safely say he has the balls to NOT point out that he has a girlfriend hotter than himself?

  4) The media puts this equation into our minds: Hot girls multiplied by their ability to rev up your jackhammer + n = opportunity at hot mind blowing sex which could also multiply your "bragging rights". n = either a relationship or a lucky shot at easy action. If deep inside this is what you are thinking when you wish to approach this hot girl, you are more shallow than you probably figured of her, or that she probably figured of you. Worse, you are probably as ravenous as the alpha males you hate.

  5) All you might possibly know about this hot girl is that she is hot. It might help your mileage, if you actually know a little more about her to make your reasoning for wanting her. If by chance you happened to memorize her favorite ice cream flavor, you are in there for perhaps a relationship, but what else could you bother to know about her enough to impress her?

  So, it's possible that the girls you approach might be interesting enough to further push you into a relationship, but if there is anything I have learned early, it's the idea of sticking to what you know. If you stutter while speaking to her, hide from her, or feel the need to swat away the men who comes to scoop her up and treat her wrong all over again, then dude, don't even bother. Just go home and pull put the KY warming, because the relationship won't last.

  Is there any bother information that I'm missing on why some men chase the hot girl and why some guys should just leave them alone?

  
  

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