Would You Ever Have a Problem Being or Having an F-Buddy?

Saturday, 09 May 2009

Would You Ever Have a Problem Being or Having an F-Buddy?

Would you ever have a problem being or having an F-Buddy?

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At least at this stage of "my game", I dont see myself having a fuck buddy. It is very tempting though.
- 5/9/2009 4:56 PM
- cApNhOwDy@xanga (message)
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No, not really. It's all about knowing that there are certain things that are make an FWB relationship different from a romantic one.
- 5/9/2009 4:57 PM
- B2yan_C@xanga (message)
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Um, yes.
I don't like the concept though there are a lot of people out there who love that they are an F-buddy/have an F-buddy. I, however, have made the choice to have only one partner which will always be my future husband, whoever he may be.
- 5/9/2009 4:57 PM
- spanz@xanga (message)
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i would have a problem with both. i have too much pride to be an fbud. & also too much of a high standard to even consider having an fbud. i wouldn't treat him/her w/ as much respect as i would w/ a bf/gf.
BUT...with the relationship that i have with my ex now..i feel like an fbud even though we don't have sex. & we don't consider ourselves as fwb. it's fun though so it's all good.
- 5/9/2009 4:58 PM
- asdfghjkieu@xanga (message)
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nope.
This topic has been brought up so much lately.
I have no problem having a fuck buddy or being one, from lots of experience it's lots of fun and it is not demeaning as long as you keep the level of respect that's needed to be a decent/proper fuck buddy.
I wrote a blog on the differences between fuck buddies and booty calls if anyone is interested:
Fuck Buddies vs Booty Calls
- 5/9/2009 4:59 PM
- MangoWOW@xanga (message)
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I would have a very big problem with both. What a sad concept you present here.
- 5/9/2009 5:00 PM
- Ancient_Scribe@xanga (message)
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No, in my opinion, while you are young and reckless. Just have fun, be safe of course but just have fun. I mean whats wrong with giving each other exactly what we want. I mean you get two things out of it. 1. you have a companion and 2. There are no strings attached good wholesome fun,
- 5/9/2009 5:14 PM
- Goodnight_Goodbye_Big_shot@xanga (message)
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I thought about it. I would figure it would be someone I just met. One of my close friends (who is a girl) asked if I wanted to be her F-buddy. But being as close of friends as we were, it just didn't seem right and awkward.
- 5/9/2009 5:18 PM
- laytexduckie@xanga (message)
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no not okay at all.
- 5/9/2009 5:24 PM
- litt0_h0nii@xanga (message)
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No.
But I'm kind of burned out on the f-buddy nonsense. Seriously, between Datingish and Mancouch...
- 5/9/2009 5:25 PM
- RazorBladeParade@xanga (message)
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For me casual sex has never really been a temptation. I was simply never attracted to anyone that way. Guess I was a late bloomer. I can't imagine myself being with a man unless I was at least strongly in love. The whole sex and love connection is a pretty strong part of my Psyche.
- 5/9/2009 5:26 PM
- echois23@xanga (message)
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@RazorBladeParade@xanga - I don't blame you, bro. Someone might as well make a documentary on the life and tribulations of someone who was actually someone's f buddy, or had their count of them.
- 5/9/2009 5:27 PM
- mynameisblueskye@xanga (message)
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Nope.
- 5/9/2009 5:30 PM
- Goose_Nickelic@xanga (message)
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yep I would have a problem with that...
cause if I had a sex buddy... I would more than likely want more than just the title of "sex buddies". I really do not want the added stress haha.
- 5/9/2009 5:37 PM
- quotes3085@xanga (message)
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[shrug] don't see the issue with casual relations in this day and age.
- 5/9/2009 6:22 PM
- BranmacFeabhail@xanga (message)
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Na not a big deal. I've had one before. We trust each other, we're friends, but we don't want a relationship at the moment. Works out.
- 5/9/2009 6:37 PM
- Lordv16@xanga (message)
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Yep. I've had one before, & I didn't feel very respected, or that I was respecting the other person involved.
- 5/9/2009 7:18 PM
- steph@datingish (message)
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I have one now.
I love it :)Free to date other guys.But also I get sex when I'm single.Its awesome.And I know he respects me.
- 5/9/2009 7:44 PM
- Jakkiemarie@xanga (message)
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No. But then again I've never had one
- 5/9/2009 8:00 PM
- HelloCarlile@xanga (message)
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Yes. to both.
- 5/9/2009 8:43 PM
- sparkletone1684@xanga (message)
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Nope, no problem at all. I had a F-buddy before. Actually, 2 at the same time. I ended up with one of them and had to cut the other one off for multiple reasons, but the main one being that I was really falling for the other guy. He's now my current bf! ^_^ Funny how things work out sometimes.
- 5/9/2009 8:53 PM
- JupitersDays@xanga (message)
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no because they aren't going to be there for you when you really want them and f-buddies break up too. it's as much trouble as a real relationship and i'd rather have someone i respect.
- 5/9/2009 9:20 PM
- thespanishdoll@xanga (message)
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I've had both good and bad experiences w/the f-buddy thing...
- 5/9/2009 10:34 PM
- Broken_Beautiful@xanga (message)
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she ugly..not a prob...
- 5/9/2009 10:35 PM
- beforedawn@xanga (message)
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No, because I could maybe do it...but I value love and loyalty and everything. and i would probably get attatched and jealous and weird. [thats just me].

I want one guy to myself. I dont wanna share him. :)
- 5/9/2009 10:37 PM
- SurveysThatTakeupUrBOREDUM@xanga (message)
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