I hate liars. I'd rather someone hurt me by telling me the truth than beat around the bush or lie. So that's why I'm really blunt when it comes to letting people know how I feel.
Liars can come from anywhere; within the family, friends or colleagues. The easiest liars to catch are girls, especially the ones you date.
Women invest more time in a relationship than men so they give off easy signals that show they're lying.
1. "Forgetting" things: Once a woman hits this point, there's no way you'll get them to "remember" anything. For a guy it's pretty frustrating, especially when you're the guy who usually forgets things and now all of a sudden the tables have turned.
The first time it happened to me, I actually thought the girl forgot but very soon, I found out she had selective memory whenever she decided to lie.
2. Playing with hands: When guys lie, they'll usually have their hands hidden in their jacket/jean pockets but female hands play an important role in their lying scheme. If it's a girl who never uses her hands to communicate, she'll start to play with them as much as she can all of a sudden. This is a sign of uncertainty. But if it's a girl who uses her hands to communicate regularly then she won't use them as much when she's lying to you. She'll hide them like many guys do.
3. Licking lips/Stuttering: This happens to both genders but women stutter more often while guys beat around the bush. Ever watch a girl lying, it's disaster, especially when she's trying to make up things along the way.
The licking off lips is obvious since our human bodies tense up and are stressed, so the saliva in our mouth dries up.
4. Looking around: You know how you always hear that the eyes are the window to the soul, it's actually true. If a girl is lying to you, she will never look into your eyes because she knows you can see she's lying. Little does she know by looking around, as if something is wrong with her neck, she's giving away the fact that she's lying. Many guys are brutal and will just look into the eyes of a woman and can easily lie. Emotions have never been a strong point for men, right?
This is the one thing every guy should know or has learned very quickly. The other 3 can happen for a number of reasons but if she can't look at you when she's replying to you about something serious, then that girl is lying her butt off.
Are these the 4 sure-fire ways to tell when a woman is lying to you? What are some other ways to tell when a woman is lying?
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@immaairheadxl@xanga - Doesn't that suck for you?
@the_loveliest_tragedy@xanga - it sucks for the girls who get at him hahahhaha
@the_loveliest_tragedy@xanga - Than I'm glad I don't know you well enough for you to have a reason to lie to me.
@immaairheadxl@xanga - Yes that would suck, I just hope that I never end up being one of those girls.
@the_loveliest_tragedy@xanga - Right? lame.
Unfortunately, I am really good at lying. I think it's because I am so brutally honest all the time, so my boyfriend doesn't expect it when I do lie. I think I have only really lied to him once or twice though...
This list should be applied to BAD liars
Good liars, do ALL that especially eye contact.
See, If I'm lying it's WHEN I give eye contact.
I never do that lmao
Did you know that our nose becomes bigger when we lie? Yes, as in pinocchio. It's known as the pinocchio response:
http://leerlenguajecorporal.blogspot.com/search/label/Lying
very interesting...
I've never really paid attention to any of this before because I'm usually just abnormally good at telling when people are lying. I may or may not say anything but a lot of the time I know.
I'll keep these in mind :)
well, looks like my LA teachers lies every second of the day then..
they run through their story really fast. then when you ask them about something they said, they explain it with ridiculous detail or say something that makes no sense.
Haha. I don't lie. I just don't tell the whole truth
@cherry_tequila@xanga - Absolutely agree. Also about the eye contact - I can look someone dead in the eye and lie successfully.
sooo true. plus, when i'm lying or extremely nervous, i twirl my hair around my finger really fast as if it would calm me down & hide my emotion..lol.
I stutter & get mixed up in my sentences when I'm nervous or when talking to people I'm not very comfortable around..I know it looks like I'm lying a lot but I'm not so I hate it.
@the_loveliest_tragedy@xanga - Same here. xD
ehh not entirely true
i forget easily, especially if i have a lot in my mind...
i'm fidgety whenever there's a serious talk of any kind...
i dont like licking mi lipsz, makes em chapped..lol
and i rarely ever look anyone in the eye, cuz i can never keep a serious face
Most of the time when people lie, their eyes tend to go down and right.
i'm honestly the best liar i know.
i could give you stories and stories of how i lie and people believe it.i have no conscious when lying. at all.but the thing that makes me so believable is my blunt attitude. i WILL tell you if your butt looks big, or if those jeans make you look fat. i'm not afraid to. so when i actually lie, everyones like "oh, yeah, she's telling the truth."
my point is, i know i don't do any of this.i can look into your eyes and lie. i ALWAYS talk with my hands. if i say i forgot something, i fucking forgot. don't ask again. & i lick my lips like 50 billion times a day anyways so no one would notice if i did it more when i was lying.stuttering is something i don't do.
yeah, i'm cocky. i know.
Those signals can be seen on me all the time ... I didn't know I was lyingÂ
There's one easy test to see if a woman is a liar.
Step 1: check her pulse
If she has any pulse at all it means she's still a liar.
P.S.
"Emotions have never been a strong point for men, right?"
Wrong. Only psychopaths believe that men don't have emotions - the exact same
emotions that women have. Women who act like men's feelings aren't as strong
or important, are clinical psychopaths (lack empathy for other humans - acting callously)