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NBA playoffs are underway, so last night a few friends and I were talking about
Dwyane Wade's performance against the 76ers.
During the discussion, one of the guys mentioned Wade and his friends throwing some crazy parties that included drugs and alcohol. (There's reports all over Google). He also mentioned that's one of the reasons why Wade's wife left him, she got an STD from him.
While we were going on about how athletes sleep with hundreds of different women on the road, another guy asked what if it was your girl that gave you an STD?
Most of the time male athletes don't really think about the girl giving them an STD. It's usually the guy sleeping around.
We all thought about it for some time and couldn't really come up with an answer other than, "we'd dump them in a heartbeat" and "I'd kick them out of the effing house."
So this begs the question, what do you if your girlfriend is the one that gives you a STD? How would you react?
Comments (35)
hah. If anyone gave me an STD I think I'd kick their ass.
Been there, done that, I kicked him out and I went to the club and told everyone I saw that he had the clap!
That all depends, if i already knew about she had one and if i really did care about her i would have made sure i was safe and all that so it wouldnt have happened. but if i didnt and i found out the hard wayy i would leave. But i feel that people should be a little more understanding about people who have STD's. Because the first conclusion people jump to is "They probably slept with everybody thats how they got it." if thats the case then people shouldnt be with someone like that cause they were not smart enough to know what would happen if they slept with everybody. but like if someone got raped or there partner cheated on them or they were born with it then ya know cut them some slack. but yea thats how i feel.
oh my god... that is horrendous. i'd dump their lying ass, then tell EVERYONE... they'd never get laid again.
i would take her out on a real romantic getaway before introducing her to some nice people in the human trafficking industry.
It's all about how it happened though.
Something tells me you kind of deserve it when you throw parties and get laid for the fuck of it.
If she lies to you and you actually bothered to ask - sue her for all shes worth, then forget you ever knew her. And while the first instinct is to shout "whore" or of that ilk, most people don't exactly get STD's by choice - just like me in this very unfortunate hypothetical situation.
Okay, in case you weren't aware, it only takes ONE partner to get an STD.
I mean, how did STDs begin anyway? One person contracted it, and then spread it. And what if you showed no signs but you had it, and then gave it to the girlfriend, and it manifested itself in her? Is that really fair?
I think it all depends on how serious the two of you are, and how long you've been together. If you've just started dating, then yeah, okay. Don't fuck her, it's that simple. But if you've been dating for, you know, a good amount of time, and you see yourself spending the rest of your life together, would you really break up with her?
That's fucked up. Seriously.
I guess lying about it is something different, but, still. There's treatments.
It also depends on the severity of the STD. If it's something treatable/curable, then what the fuck is the big deal? But if it's HIV/AIDS, then I suppose it's a huge problem- that doesn't mean you should blame it all on her, you know.
yes, i would get mad. how mad depends on the situation. if she never told me then i'll get mad. if we weren't having any problems before and all of a sudden i get an STD then i'll get really mad and suspicious at the same time.
I would be mad as hell and I wouldn't take it anymore.
Pissed. Especially since I'm not supposed to have a girlfriend.
i realize i am a woman answering this but...
it depends on the situation i suppose.
if it is some kind of casual fling or one night stand, then i probably deserve it.
If it is a significant other, then:
1. they have a responsibility to tell me that they have something. That way I can make a decision about what to do...i.e.-protection, not sleep w/them, leave them, whatever it might be.
2. if they honestly didn't know and gave it to me without realizing, then it would be up to me once again to make a decision...leave them, whatever.
3. If it is a really serious long term relationship, as in, i'm not planning on being with anyone else, i don't guess it would really matter, unless the way they got it is from cheating on me.
basically, i could have not written any of this and left it at "depends on the situation."
Anyone who knowingly has an STD and has sex without telling their partner first should be arrested. It's basically an extreme form of assault and negligence, and in the case of HIV, it's equivalent to intentional homicide. I require testing from a new partner and would expect the same requirement from them--it reflects responsibility.
i'd pull a Chris Brown on that biiitch! haha :D
I would go fucking postal.
before i sleep with anyone, i make sure they're clean and wearing a condom, you never know these days, but at least wearing a condom will protect you the most if your partner does have something. i would be so pissed off and i would end the relationship if it was someone i have been seeing.
I'd feel pretty dumb for not using a condom...
*assuming im a guy* "i hope you just gave me one".
if my bf has an std i think i should have thr right to know because we are sxually active. if he tells me, i wouldn't have sex with him anymore...esp if it's a virus...those aren't cureable/ if he doesnt tell me and then i find out later. i will twitter that shit and facebook it n make sure he gets no vagina in his lifetime. and i will def make his life a living hell. and if he said he didn't know, yeaa that's hell. the only way he'd get to stay with me is if he got it cause he was saving someone's life and forgot to put on gloves n had a cut or sommething.... n he's not that type so if he got it from some bitch... hmmmmm
Bang her a couple more times, and kick her out.
left hook to the ovary? maybe not... but id be really close
I'd definately find out when it was sure, and find out how long they had been sleeping around, then test myself for other STDs that may bave been somewhat dormant in them but passed onto me.
Then, if married, I would probably divorce them and make them pay for any and all hospital visits. Either way, no one should have to deal with that!
pissed off that she didn't have the decency (or the courage) to tell me.
If it's curable i'd let it go. But if not, i wouldn't find it in myself to forgive her.
It would basically stuff up further relationships because you would have to hold back in a way (or two).
... It's the thought that counts! ...
make her life as miserable as possible
rofl @ killa2387@xanga