Thursday, 26 March 2009

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  • JadedJanissary@xanga

    Yes, i have.  Religious reasons.

  • xDark_horizonx@xanga

    Yes, to spite my girlfriend at the time for not telling me her trip out of state had been canceled and that she would be around on our anniversary.

  • FOXHOUND_HQ@xanga

    I have, several times. Why? Because I'm waiting until marriage.

  • beachblondie711@xanga

    It's a rare occurance, but yes. I am really grumpy when I wake up, not to mention completely out of it. You can wake me up and hold entire conversations with me and I won't remember them.


    You know how people talk about how hot it would be to be woken up with sex? Not so much. I'll probably glare at you and go back to bed.


    Otherwise no. I don't really turn down sex (from my boyfriend). Why would I !?!?

  • shetakesphotos@xanga

    Pfft, I' m a girl & I don't turn down sex. My boyfriend has, though. If he has work to do, or there isn't enough time before we have other obligations for us to do so, then we won't. I'm usually the one who's like, "Pleaaase, we can make it quick!" But noooo. Doesn't work on him.

  • DarkButtercup94@xanga

    I usually don't turn it down, but when I do, it's because I'm very sick, or too drunk. My bf turns it down more though, sometimes he won't want to because of being in a grumpy mood. We're LDR though so it doesn't happen too often. 

  • jeezcak3@xanga

    yup... different girls. fine looking ones. clean and fresh ones, not slutty ones. ;[ i regret. tried to be a gentleman  but now i realize i was just plain stupid. wops... im a virgin. ;]]

  • Eternal_Nocturne@xanga

    Yes. My reasons weren't because the chick was hot or ugly.

    My reason: Personal paranoia. Yes, it seems like a wussy thing to say; but I just have this belief that there is no such thing as free sex from somebody that isn't your lover. If I'm getting offered free sex from somebody, I will end up paying for it in one way or another.

  • anonymous

    Once or twice, when I was trying to stop having sex with a friend.  

  • Solarhead@xanga

    Yes.  I'd begun by being interested in her when we first met (about an hour earlier), and my interest had increased significantly.  However, I prefer to become better acquainted before getting into the Horizontal Mambo, so I was looking forward to seeing her another time or two before addressing that whole "next level" thing.  Before another hour had passed she asked "so, do you want to go somewhere and f*ck, or what?".

    While I was in my 20s, the answer would have been "what? we ain't left yet?", but then there seem to have been far fewer reasons for circumspection and caution back then.  To be brief, she was a little too forward for me.

    Yeah, I'm old and a burn-out, but my heart is pure (yeah, right) and my blood is clean.  I hate surprises.

  • JorgeXstructureofanupX@xanga

    i have turned down sex. i turned down 3 or 4 girls. reason being, i was still a virgin and didnt want my firs time to be with someone i met 6 minutes before hand. i eventually lost it to my best friend, and to this day she nor i regret that move.

  • beforedawn@xanga

    tiny lil beautiful lady over dinner, started in on a rape fantasy umm im not that kinda dude so... not that i was worried for her ..was far more worried about me..like what if i found heh this i LIKE?

  • At_Sixes_And_Sevens@xanga

    yeah, because if you have secks befoar you get married you can get the aids and the stds and get pregnent, whelp

  • Mr_Jin@xanga

    Quite a few times.  Mostly from girls I know who want to have something "more" than sex.  I don't like to lead them on, gets too damn complicated.

  • BranmacFeabhail@xanga

    @GcsEvilQueen7839@xanga - yeah.....i don't turn it down, but i've been turned down :( sad day.

    boys really aren't machines, i guess....

  • McCannSTL@xanga

    Once, but only because I heard rumors about this chick having STD's.

    Other than that I can't remember another time I've said no. Call me weak willed, but I just like sex. Why say no when it feels so good to say yes!?

  • Neurotically_Mine@xanga

    yeah one time.. I fell out of love with my then boyfriend.. needless to say we broke up soon after. 

  • immaairheadxl@xanga

    Well, god.


    If i were to say yes everytime.


    My list would probably more than a 100


    and i'll be beyond a walkin' STD.


    i'll be dying from the 10th person!

  • raiderjester@xanga

    Yes. I used to book shows at bars and there were drunk girls, you know how it goes. I always said no to them, because it would be wrong to take advantage of a girl just because she was inebriated.


    I didn't mind turning down my ex when she got on my nerves, either. I don't need sex to live.

  • prima_ballerina19@xanga

    plenty of times. mostly bc ive always had a boyfriend when people ask. and im not a cheater. where are all these welcome doners when im single?! sheesh!

  • di_ya@xanga

    Yes but I always regret it later b/c I really do love having sex with the BF.


    Usually, it's b/c I'm tired from work, embarrassed I might be overheard, or having my god awful monthly flux.

  • TheLoveMuse@xanga

    I used to turn it down a bit when I was dating my bf - top two reasons were I was sore from last time, or I was too tired (he used to wake me up at 5am for sex...yeah, no. Just let me sleep.)


    Near the end I just wasn't interested anymore...

  • laytexduckie@xanga

    Yes. Because I was dead tired. What's the use if you would be falling asleep during it anyways?

  • lolquack@xanga

    If I'm dating someone. and we've already had sex. then I never turn it down. Unless I am in pain like serious pain.
    Wake me up to it. Is the best thing ever :P

    But If I'm single, and someone offers. The answer is no.

  • rumination_lost@xanga

    Yes.


    She was ugly, and I had nothing to drink.
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