Is it wrong that I practically forced my girlfriend out the door? I just don't think she spends enough time with other people. She's way too content to spend it all with me.
Which:
a.) I find a bit claustrophobic (and extremely puzzling!) and
b.) Makes me feel enormous pressure to never break up with her, because she'll have no one to turn to if I do!
Gotta think of the future, dudes!
Anyway she looked totally hot too. Which is great!
I know guys that won't let their girls out of the house if they think they look too good, or if they think their tops too low, or their skirts are too short, or whatever... but where's the sense in that!
If my girlfriend is looks AMAZING, I want her OUT THERE, and preferably in places where lots of people I know congregate, so that they will see her and be like: "WHO is THAT gorgeous beast? Oh... She's Ryan's girlfriend? He did GOOD, yo!"
Is that so wrong?
I think it's just another extension of my malignant narcissism, since I love it when other guys flirt with her. It totally turns me on to think I have a desirable girlfriend other dudes want.
Their appreciation of her is just one big huge compliment in my direction, patting my back for pulling something so alluringly attractive. That's right!
And it's not just a physical thing. I feel equally as proud when other guys compliment her wit, or her intelligence, or when she makes them laugh like goofballs, or whips their ass at
Guitar Hero.
How do you feel if someone flirts or compliments your girl? What if another dude hits on her?
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my boyfriend is exactly like you. i find it a turn on that he finds it a turn on.
dude.
i'm all for have the male multitudes gaping at my "chick".
amen, amen.
You're always hilarious. =)
yeah makes you feel like one lucky ass dude to have a desirable girl by your side doesn't it?
but if you don't keep a good leash on her..you might lose her fo-eh-vaaaahhhhhh.
My hubby hates it. lol Sometimes, I point it out so that he'll be jealous, because if he's just a LITTLE (and I do mean a LITTLE) jealous, that's a turn on for me.
So she's just a piece of jewelry to you? For you to flaunt?
If someone compliments her, I'm fine with it. If a guy tries to hit on her, I let them know that she's mine. If they keep going at it, well, I just leave with her. Besides, she knows when things like that get out of hand, she knows to leave.
I think guys who are completely secure with themselves are the guys who would let others hit on their girl. :)
I am exactly like you!
I absolutely love it when girls like my boyfriend or they tell me they think he's hot not realizing i'm his girlfriend.
It's like...that's right. He's all mine. hehe ^^
I think maybe if she wasn't so totally freakishly into you, you'd be a little more like "yo dude hold up, that's MINE" :)
I can't say that I like it when other guys hit on my gf or date. I don't mind receiving compliments from friends or family about my gf though.
I agree about when your girl doesn't spend enough time with other people comment. A relationship is great, but it's not an excuse to stop hanging out with your friends. That can be a real relationship killer.
i wish my ex was like that. he felt threatened by other guys attention on me. he thought it would make me leave him or cheat. but that doesnt matter anymore lol.
lol, you sound so bad, it's like you're flaunting her off like she's just a thing.
I wish my ex was like that too but even if I talked to a male friend, he would think I was flirting or that I liked him better, which created some problems. Instead of knowing that I only want to be with him no matter how many guys try to flirt with me. You're showing a lot of confidence and more guys should be like you! I know that if girls are flirting with my bf, then I know I am very lucky that he is with me :)
haha that's a refreshing way of looking at it
@Neurotically_Mine@xanga - I should be so lucky, jewellery comes with a receipt and a returns policy!!
haha, but no way! It's a sad day when a guy being proud of his girl must mean he's objectified her.
Why can't more guys be like you!? The crap I've put up with in the past from jealous boyfriends drove me insane.
Your posts always make me laugh too.
@TheL0ki@xanga -
And I quote "It totally turns me on to think I have a desirable girlfriend other dudes want."
That's not objectification?
"Their appreciation of her is just one big huge compliment in my
direction, patting my back for pulling something so alluringly
attractive."
It's sad day when guys start talking about their girlfriends as trophies and their worth is measured by how desirable they are (to other men). But hey, if it feeds your ever growing ego.
@Neurotically_Mine@xanga - The fact you are reading my blog and replying to it, is feeding my ever growing ego, my sweet! You are very much part of the fuelling process! ;D
What is wrong with other people appreciating what you have? Maybe I shall instead hide her away so nobody can see her and admire her! I shall uglify her and strip her of her charms!
If celebrating and enjoying desirable women is a crime then lock me up!
I don't mind if my girlfriend hangs out with you or you give her a quick glance from that corner where you're hanging out with your buddies and say "Damn that girl's hot."
I draw the line at trying to hit on her though, especially if you know that she's with me. I don't get jealous if it's platonic, but there are boundaries you don't cross unless you're willing to step outside.
I ALWAYS want to meet the girlfriend or wife of the guys I'm attracted to... is that so wrong? Not b/c I want to start a fight or compare myself to her... I'm really, really happy when couples are a good match!
@TheL0ki@xanga - lol.. there's a reason i read mancouch..and it's b/c it keeps reassuring me that men are exactly as I have imagined them.
:) have a nice day!
well i can see where you're coming from. It gives you a sense of power and boost to your male confidence thing.
lol look at all these girls insisting that it's a MAN thing, and it's all totally to do with your over-whelming male ego! ... I feel exactly the same way as you do towards my boyfriend. There's nothing hotter than feeling that other ladies are lusting after him! ;D
@KTlou85@xanga - You are obviously just some crazed male egotist out to boost your male confidence thing! ;D Stop fooling yourself!