Thursday, 12 March 2009

  • It's Hard Trying to Understand Women, Isn't it?

    QOTD


    Why is it that a woman will say she wants an honest relationship but when you tell her she looks kind of heavy in that outfit, they get mad? Or when you are saying, "Yes honey those pants do make your butt look big", they end up getting pissed off?

    I am a firm believer in telling the truth whenever possible and if you can't tell the truth, then you don't say anything at all. So why does a girl that knows I will not lie to her, ask stupid questions like that?

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Comments (45)

  • joyouswind@xanga

    I agree. It IS hard to understand women. Half the time I don't even know what the heck I'm thinking.
  • missedout_onlife@xanga

    I think it's the other way around. WHY ARE MEN NOT SENSITIVE TO WOMEN AND THEN WOMEN WOULDN'T BE SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND OR WOULDN'T GET PISSED OFF!!


    We ask questions so that we can have the person we love make us feel good about ourselves. Not hurt us by saying that we look fat...it's not what we want to hear (even if you have to lie). If you feel insecure about your manly parts and you ask your woman if she's satisfied with you, wouldn't you want her to say that yes you're perfect just the way you are ? Instead of telling you she's seen better?


    There's honesty and honesty. The big lies and little ones that won't harm. It definitely won't harm her if you tell her that those pants don't make her butt look big. But it will definitely hurt her if you lie about where you were and she finds out about it.
  • somebody__knows@xanga

    Girls subconsciously test guys. It doesn't matter what your answer is. They analyze it.



    And girls don't ask those questions. STUPID GIRLS ask those questions. Well, if I ask my boyfriend, he gives me the truth, and I don't get mad. -rolls eyes-
  • abcxunt@xanga

    i'd rather someone tell me my ass looks big in clothes than letting me wearing it in public.
  • MrsMok@xanga

    I'm all for honesty. If you can tell me I'm fat then I should be able to say that your dick is tiny and your brother fucks me better. And you can't get upset and have your ego start crying everywhere. Two-way street, buck-o.
  • jupiter312@xanga

    I prefer honesty (and I'll be the first to say if my ass looks big in something), so I don't understand why other women do things like that either.  I just want a straightforward relationship, so I avoid that bullshit as much as I can.
  • MissSmartHottie@xanga

    Not all women are like that... At least not all the time


    And why? Uhmm... We want to be perfect and have no flaws

  • echois23@xanga

    Even women don't understand women. So how can we ever expect our men to understand us? I'm sorry guys, but hey, keeps life exciting never knowing what might set us off next eh?
  • DarkButtercup94@xanga

    Cause we're women. And we're evil. Bwahaha!

    I mean...

  • Kaythan@xanga

    There's a difference between honesty and being blunt. Learn it.
  • SlackerSociety@xanga

    @Kaythan@xanga -  "Does this make my butt look big?"
    Yes it does.=Honesty.

    Same Question again, but I answer, "looks like you stuffed 2 hams in your jeans."=blunt.

    @somebody__knows@xanga - @abcxunt@xanga - @MrsMok@xanga -  I just don't see what the problem is with having a big ass.
    So if I said you looked nice, and then you found out, and thought it wasn't, would that be lying?
  • Hellationships@xanga

    @abcxunt@xanga - Same here, then again it's stupid for me to ask since my ass ALWAYS looks fat.

    But to answer the question. Never tell a chick she looks fat, mask it by saying that the pants don't look that great and she should get rid of them.

    I enjoy blunt conversation, but it's very difficult to stomach sometimes.

  • WhenHateIsTheOnlyOption@xanga

    I think any person (Man or Woman) can tell if they look fat in anything. Maybe those women who ask such questions are delusional and a white lie can make them believe in something totally untrue. They gots problems.
  • SlackerSociety@xanga

    @MrsMok@xanga - But if you're saying that, then why don't you just go back their brother? makes no difference to me, and it wastes both our time if you're with that same guy, so apparently his tiny cock is satisfying you enough.

    But in all fairness, if you ask, then you want an answer. that is what this post is getting at. You don't want to be lied to. So why get angry if the answer wasn't one you desired?
  • Neurotically_Mine@xanga

    So if I ask who do you find more attractive, me or my sister..and you answer my sister.. you deserve a blow to the face. It's not about answering honestly.. its about answering correctly.

    If you still can't figure out women by now, then you shouldn't be dating. Women want you to be faithful to them and to tell them if you've cheated..as for everything else, lying is okay.

  • dR34M_w_Im4g1nAti0n@xanga

    Women aren't all that rational, as you seem to finally be learning.
  • tokyoexpressman@xanga

    I just refuse to answer stupid questions by saying, "That's a stupid question." And I don't answer it.

    I would guess it's just easier to lie, but since I'm never put in these sorts of "Does my butt look big?" situations, I wouldn't know. My girlfriend pretty much figures I don't know shit about half the stuff she wants an opinion on, so she doesn't ask me and instead goes to her friends for that sort of stuff because she doesn't want to waste my time.

    I love it.

  • SicTransitGloria19@xanga

    i dont ask too many stupid questions like "is the girl on tv prettier then me?" duhh if she wasnt then id be on tv. but sometimes ill ask a question i know the answer too just for an ego stroke. I'd rather have honesty, but a white lie here or there never hurts.


    @Neurotically_Mine@xanga - answer correctly, exactly!!
  • just_melmel@xanga

    @Neurotically_Mine@xanga - right on point. 

  • OmgaPhnx@xanga

    @Neurotically_Mine@xanga - True. I think it depends on the timing and occasion though. Asking if another girl is prettier is a given. You better not answer wrong. But when it comes to a question like above about pants making you look fat I don't see why someone should lie. I know I'd hate going out in public looking bad.
  • Neurotically_Mine@xanga

    @OmgaPhnx@xanga - I think most times we like to entertain the idea that honesty is always the best policy, but not really. Yes, if you look extremely huge in those pants then there's definitely a tactful way to saying it instead of answering so directly. Instead of saying the problem is her ass really is huge, you could say those pants are really ugly..redirecting the problem that it's really just the pants..like what someone said earlier.

    I, for one, wouldn't want my boyfriend to tell me he thinks my ass looks huge in them even if I KNOW its the truth.

  • BranmacFeabhail@xanga

    because most chicks are either a) totally delusional about their looks or b) don't have sufficient self-esteem to think they look good without an outside opinion and need a little ego-stroking from a hapless fellow..

    ...or just don't know how to dress to flatter themselves.

    (which is possible for most normal body types)

    women need to get over the bullshit "my man should think i'm beautiful every single day no matter what; i am a goddess."   maybe some guys are really like that (riiiight)...but i will definitely tell my bf when he looks like hell and needs a shave and a bath. hopefully he will be as honest, idk though....sweet boys sheesh
  • Kazydai

    @missedout_onlife@xanga - "I think it's the other way around. WHY ARE MEN NOT SENSITIVE TO WOMEN AND THEN WOMEN WOULDN'T BE SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND OR WOULDN'T GET PISSED OFF!!"

    That's just one more piece of proof that you guys make no sense. And by saying that comment, it makes it seem like, "Oh, women aren't confusing at all as long as the guy caters to their each and every needs, and learns how to read minds, etc."

    If she's asking questions like that, she already knows the answer, and she already knows that whatever answer I give her, she's prepared to fight it.

    Her: "Babe, do these pants make my but look big?"

    Me: "Wow, these DVDs are half off 'til Friday! (And then I shove a twix in my mouth.)

    And besides, I thought this was Mancouch? Why are a good 85% of the responses women? Can us guys not even have our own website? Just saying...
    *puts on fireproof suit...*
  • hawaiinnights@xanga

    There are ways to answer those questions honestly and still cushion the blow. My boyfriend has told me before that he didn't like an outfit I had on or that I looked weird or heavy in it, and I didn't get mad at him. He's telling him the answer to my questions and being kind about it. Did I change? Only when I looked heavy...otherwise, what does he know about fashion, he's a guy! :P
  • immaairheadxl@xanga

    It's hard to understand people.


    period.

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