If you live in NYC or any other metropolitan city, you've seen a guy twist his neck and yell out, "Damnnnn! She got a phat ass" as a woman walks by.
Many women find it very offensive and always make a face as the guy stands and stares at her ass while she walks away.
I find it amusing when these guys announce it to the whole world when they're staring at a women's behind.
If you're going to do that, do it in a manner where the girl nor the people around you know know what you're doing.
One of the easiest ways is to turn around with a phone/iPod in your hand while pretending like you're actually looking at it, then just gawk as much as you like.
The reason I mention this is because my friend almost got a beating by some random guy for making a remark about his girlfriend's butt.
We were standing outside of a bank while the girl was walking in. As she reached for the door,my friend yelled out loud, " Wow, she looks good. You see her ass?"
A few seconds later a very large man came up to my friend and wanted to know why we were checking out his girl.
First of all, he should take that as a compliment but this guy wasn't about to do that. Instead he wanted an apology.
I've never heard a guy ask for such a thing, so it caught me off guard. When my friend refused, the guy wanted to beat him into a pulp.
He managed to get out of the situation without getting his face bashed in but it taught him a valuable lesson, never stare at a girls behind, especially if she's walking with a large guy.
What's the fascination with a girl's butt? How often do you see guys turning around to stare at a girl's butt?
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but i hav no idea why guyz wud do that shit
im flattered when guys say it
...unless im in church or at a gravesite....
then its just wrong
yeah why do guys have to verbalize it? i see lots of things in a day that interest me and i don't yell it out like a 2-year-old. i mean, look all you want but i don't want to hear your mouth.
I'm defintely not flattered if a guy announces it like that. It's rude and disrespectful in my opinion. There are different ways to let her know how much you like it.
I don't really know what it is, but it's just attractive. Especially a girl with a nice butt and nice legs. I don't even know what it is, it's nothing sexual (at least not for me), but it's just nice to look at. I've been wondering why for a while, but I still can't quite figure it out.
Guys constantly check out girls' butts! It just makes me feel uncomfortable with all of the cat-calls or raunchy comments made as us girls walk by..keep it to yourself! Or better yet, come talk to us, instead of trailing behind with your friends, making comments that are loud enough for us to hear, even when you think we can't!
Note to ALL GUYS: We can indeed hear you, even when you think we can't.
comments like that make me sick. don't know how many times i've had comments such as "hey baby, you look cold, why don't you get into my car?". I want to know what is so sexy about a 5'3 in shorts & long sleeves covered in mud and slime & running. plus shouldn't the drivers be keeping their eyes on the road? rather than narrowly missing me?
it's inappropriate to comment on.
then again, women who wear extremely tight pants should not freak out when it does happen.
I don't make comments like that. I actually don't turn to all at a girl's ass at all. Maybe because I'm not some perverted douche. *shrugs*
I think every guy knows already that if you're going to blatantly check out a girl, make sure she doesn't have an ex-con on her arm. Female butts are just ingrained in our minds as a pleasant image and a sign of youth and fertility I guess; there's no science to it. And If i saw a booty like that I'd start singing the chorus to "Back Dat Azz Up."
The female body is a work of art. Who are we to say no to art.
----------------slim approved------------------
It's highly disrespectful and I wish I knew the cause for it. I was out once (going to Target, yes!) and these 2 guys yelled from their truck "go on girl! look at that thang!" etc. I wanted to RUN into the store. It was so embarassing I didn't know what to do! Whyyyyyy does that happen?! I don't think anyone's ass is worth starting/yelling at. Even when girls see a man she's attracted to, we don't stare and make comments like that out loud. So, maybe we ladies are just a bit more classy ;)
I don't know what it is about a girl's ass, it is just so beautiful to me...if she has one that is. Love to crease it and smack it...
I am definitely an ass man, but I don't yell it out in public.
Kim Kardashian has a BIG OL' BOOTY!
well i don't mind. i've gotten the "damn" in LA and NYC. I'm fortunate to have a butt unlike some Asian girls (ex. my sis). Just don't keep yelling at me or stalking me. Then it's rude!
Guys will be guys.
"DAMN GUH YOU GOT A DONK.."
I'd love to have Kim Kardashian's butt. Aha.
But I guess thats just what guys do.. you know?
That boyfriend is really weird for asking why he was checking out his girl. Stupid question. What guy DOESN'T check out chicks.
I don't think there's anything wrong with LOOKING, even if the woman feels it's staring. But the minute words are said, especially comments aimed at other people hearing....then the guy has lost. I don't have any pity for some "Bigger guy" beating the shit out of someone for saying comments like that about his wife/gf. It's disrespectful. Sure, staring might be too, but he's only staring at someone in public. That's not a crime, no matter how uncomfortable it may make you. Additionally, dressing with revealing clothes brings on more stares. You want to wear a mini-skirt with some cleavage bearing top, then be prepared for some heads to turn. It's just human nature.
Haha, something like this has happened to me a couple times. I think women always pretend to be shocked or disgusted, but they'll always walk away smug. Women like to hear that they're hot stuff, even if it's somewhat degrading. Amazingly enough, hearing those crude remarks can sometimes boost their self-esteems a little.
But SSSHHHH, that's a secret (though certainly not an invitation for guys to unleash a shlew of anti-feministic verbal remarks). Haha
And yes, it is very inappropriate.
If girls dont want raunchy comments, then they should quit dressing like skanks.
A look is a look, whatever. But I'd prefer not to be stared at, and I'd REALLY prefer for guys to not be vocal about what they see. I know I have a nice butt, there's no reason for someone to have to remind me.
As for the dude that wanted an apology, I can totally understand that. The comment was disrespectful, and your friend said it out loud as well. Not only that, but I don't think the girl would appreciate being put on the spot with such an inappropriate comment. I know I absolutely hate it when a guy directs a catcall or something like "What a nice ass" at me. If the guy wants to come up to me and say, "I just wanted to say that I think you're very beautiful," he has a MUCH better chance of getting a smile and a "thank you" from me. I don't think a guy should mind much if others are checking out his girl, but when it's followed by a remark about her ass and how great it is, I can't blame him for getting angry.
@kissthewake@xanga - I actually do get angry if it's degrading. No smugness at all.
@peacelove__CALLIE@xanga - I wear regular outfits and still got catcalled by guys. Not all women that get raunchy comments dress like skanks. But of course, if a girl is dressed up like a hooker, she has no right to complain.
@KasumiCelesta@xanga - Well yeah, I really should have mentioned that the same thing doesn't apply to all women. I just think that some women do actually just pretend to be pissed off, when really their not. Not to say that some women don't truly get pissed off...haha. And I guess it also depends on the circumstances. If I'm by myself and surrounded by a bunch of creepy guys who are gawking...obviously I'm going to get uncomfortable.